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Blogs > bisex4firsttime > first time anal sex???

i am scared about having anal sex for my first time  

bisex4firsttime 56M
19 posts
4/21/2007 9:23 pm
i am scared about having anal sex for my first time

anylsdies you got any suggestions for a woman wanting to have anal sex but afraid to because she's afraid it will hurt?? any ideas how i can get over being scared??
please tell me (if you have anal) what you use or do to make it more comfortable and less painful. my husband is very long and thick. i do not want to keep telling him no but i am afraid his long thick cock is going to hurt me. HELP!
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CreatingBeauty 61F

4/21/2007 9:53 pm

 There are desensitizing lubes you can buy that may help. Take your time, be gentle. Tell her you will not do anything until she is ready. Start out with just the tip of your finger well lubed.

For her it is important to relax. As you feel him begin to enter you do not tense up. Instead push your anus muscles out just as if you were trying to have a bowel movemment. This really helps in accepting his fingers, a toy, or his member.

And remember there is nothing wrong with anal sex. It is perfectly natural and if done right is a very enjoyable experience.

Good Luck!
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smilee742 49F

4/21/2007 10:01 pm

 My advice to you is a little at a time and very gentle--once in don't pull completely out and I am telling you it may a hurt a little in the beginning but it is so worth it in the end!! DOn't be scared it is n't as bad as it seems.. GOOD LUCK!!!


net_girl_1 64F

4/22/2007 12:57 am

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bisex4firsttime 56M
43 posts
4/22/2007 7:56 pm

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bisex4firsttime 56M
43 posts
4/24/2007 10:30 pm

 thank you smilee that ,akes me feel a little more comfortable
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Pet1960 63F
193 posts
5/5/2007 8:35 pm

 If he uses a good amount of lube and goes very very slow it will not hurt. as stated before start out with your fingers and gradually move up in size since you are so large. Anal sex can be one of the most enjoyable things if it is all done slowly. As much as I sometimes want it slammed in my best orgasms have been from the long slow ride.


lv2pleaseunow 65M
95 posts
4/8/2008 8:27 am

 hey bisex4firsttime, just take it slow, warm up to it gradually. I'd suggest a series of gradually larger dildo's to start and then when you're ready just use lots of lube and go very slowly until you're comfortable with it. Anal is great if done right. Also, I am very interested in getting with a couple so if you're interested too contact me at oohay chipper_21329 ok?! Hope to hear from you soon, D


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