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What is the quality you wish you could have the most?
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What is the quality you wish you could have the most? "One of the deepest feminine pleasures is when a man stands full, present, and unreactive in the midst of his woman’s emotional storms. When he stays present with her, and loves her through the layers of wildness and closure, then she feels his trustability, and she can relax". -- David Deida A wonderful response from one of my blogs got me to thinking. This one actions shows a person's real integrity. Integrity. I commented to a friend of mine that people don't seem to actually live by that anymore. That ole saying" A man's word is his bond" doesn't seem to apply. For a woman, his word is as important as the size of his cock and how he satisfys her emotionally and sexually. For those of you who are here on VisionPersonals.com to try and find someone with mutual interests and something more then a roll in the hay, you may relate to the depth of this blog. Is this a part of it? What is the quality you wish you could have the most that either you had or would like to cultivate with someone else?  |
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3/6/2007 10:50 pm |
Lordy do i need diplomacy, got most of the other good stuff embedded way back - but - that diplomacy one just didn't stick. Hugs & More
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I believe a few romantics with integrity still exist. And not all of us are out here to "wham bam" and vanish. The quality I'd like to cultivate is to be more unconditional in love which may be dangerous but seems to be therapeutic as well. The gist would be 'May my passion for passion never run out and may my ability and ease with which I say "I love you" only be surpassed by my sincerity and strength of meaning it.'
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Personally, I am human so I don't always do what I say I will, but I try really hard to be dependable. I do like to think that if I tell somebody I'm going to be here at 4pm, I'm there. If I see a friend or acquaintance having a tough time, I try to offer myself as an ear or advice giver if that's what they are seeking. I often get viewed as uptight because I don't "go with the flow". I'll say what I think of something. I've commented on management at work and maybe that's kept me from a higher level position there, but I don't point blame to someone else and I don't pretend I think something is a great idea if I don't think it is. I suppose in my own mind the thing I need to cultivate more is the ablility to let some things go. This is a tough question.
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3/8/2007 7:23 am |
From a recent post, I wrote about the many and varied differences between men and women...and how the vast majority of the adult dating public don't understand that there are real differences. We all have our own love languages. When two people can understand the basic, fundamental needs of each other it makes for a wonderful relationship. There is a terrific book on the subject of male to female communication and understanding called 'The Five Love Languages', by Gary Chapman. I highly recommend it to anyone serious about being in a loving, friendly, adult relationship. "It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages." - F. Nietzsche (...and unhappy adult relationships for that matter) We should all take the time needed to cultivate an understanding friendship with those that may turn out to be very important people in our lives. Be good!
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trust and friendship you cant have a good relationship without them lets face sooner or later the lust and passion will start to fade and what will you be left with? nothing if you dont have some common ground. that saying "a mans word is his bond" and doing business with a handshake unfortunatley those are outdated values. both of my parents drilled the saying " a man is only as good as his word" into my head. and as much as I try to live by it the rest of the world seems to take advantage of that. Corporate ideology has trickled down into everyday life (whatever it takes to get ahead) all is fair people have no reservations about lying to get what they want. look around we are constantly bombarded with instant gratification, sex money and decadence its what the media pushes and integrity, ethics and high moral standards have become the victim and because of that we as a nation are starting to suffer.
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5/7/2007 6:32 am |
INTEGRITY- is doing what is right when no one is looking
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