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Tan Lines  

touchofthenight 67F
49 posts
3/4/2007 12:22 am

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4/3/2007 10:28 pm
Tan Lines
Ahh, the weather was excellent today! I could feel that urge to get out and show a little skin.
It got me to thinking about something as well too.

Tan Lines.

Women hate them, but you guy.. just love the heck out of them.....

Why?
HZab 65M
53 posts
3/4/2007 1:35 am

 "Tan Lines" act as a highlight.

If your reading a book and you come to a line that is highlighted, it stands out and you pay more attention to it. The information highlighted sticks in your head for a longer time.

Having your special parts highlighted with tan lines, keeps the picture in our minds longer, And we do want to keep it in our minds.

Guys are more visually focused then girls. Girls feel more then guys.

If a girl's tan line "felt" exciting, I think that girls would then like the tan lines.


touchofthenight replies on 3/4/2007 5:17 pm:
Wow, thanks. That is about the most intelligent answer so far, even without my having to ask the question here in the blog.

So tell me why men are more visually focused?

I had a psych professor tell me one time that it is because men pay more attention to details. Do you feel that way also.

I agree we as women do "feel" more. Though I do know men that do as well and NO they aren't gay either. They are great commnicators and are intouch with themselves and can EXPRESS it.

For me, that is what "type" of man I a interested in. I would gather to say alot of women are the same. lol! I guess we want to best of both worlds!

I wonder too, would men want women who didn't "feel" and were more detailed oriented like themselves?

scottj55555 56M
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3/4/2007 8:03 pm

 Hi,

I'm Scott (I like to be polite and introduce myself). I think that generally men are visual because men's minds are sort of wired to deal with the actual and the tangible while women, as you said, "feel" more. Women seem to be more easily able to focus on or toward the intangible.

My 2 cents but I hope that's enough for this ride


Katzenjammer_Kid 67M
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3/4/2007 8:48 pm

 Women get tan lines because they want to show a LITTLE skin

No suit.....no tan lines.

Men do not pay any more attention to detail than woman...I think your psych professor was full of crap. I will agree that most men fail to be emotionally "fully present". There are folks that make a nice living writing books and giving seminars on the different ways men and women act and percieve.

The issue runs far deeper than tan lines and visual focus


Katzenjammer_Kid 67M
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3/4/2007 9:56 pm

 "One of the deepest feminine pleasures is when a man stands full, present, and unreactive in the midst of his woman’s emotional storms. When he stays present with her, and loves her through the layers of wildness and closure, then she feels his trustability, and she can relax".
-- David Deida

This guy is one who has some very interesting views on masculine and feminine


touchofthenight replies on 3/6/2007 8:19 pm:
I really like this quote. he definately is in tune with women and what he can do to fulfill something more then physical.

This quote alone says alot about relationships. It is that one quality that keeps them strong and binds them together beyond sexuality.

I wish I could view your profile...

suffolkguy4gal 65M
28 posts
3/6/2007 6:52 am

 So tell me why do women hate them? I mean if they know guys love them, I'd think they would want them.


touchofthenight replies on 3/6/2007 1:47 pm:
Hi, Speaking personally, I use to think it "framed us" and it was a real bother when we tried to dress for pictures. I think it also may be a generation related thing.

For me, I am growing to like it. The more I look at them, the more sensual they make me feel, like haveing something covered but not really covered and when it comes to my nipples showing it really makes me wish had a man to suck on them!

rm_KnowStuff 63M
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3/6/2007 11:18 pm

 Yeah you may be right about them with me -- they suggest the hidden being exposed, to a select audience, displayed especially for, and being one of the fortunate few. Sometimes stark contrast is an aphrodisiac.


HZab 65M
53 posts
3/10/2007 3:55 am

 So tell me why men are more visually focused?
Good Question. I don't know. Its just what I have heard and witnessed thru the years.
I had a psych professor tell me one time that it is because men pay more attention to details. Do you feel that way also. Now I'm not a professor, so it may be true. I'm not a detail minded person. Actually, from my experiences, girls tend to pay more attention to details then men.
I agree we as women do "feel" more. Though I do know men that do as well and NO they aren't gay either. They are great communicators and are in touch with themselves and can EXPRESS it.
I agree with you. Men have just been taught thru the centuries that they have to be careful as to when to EXPRESS their feelings, and to WHO.

For me, that is what "type" of man I a interested in. I would gather to say a lot of women are the same. lol! I guess we want to best of both worlds!
Yes you do. Just remember, we men only have the ability to do what we are able to do. We would love to give you the world, but we do not have the ability to do that.

I wonder too, would men want women who didn't "feel" and were more detailed oriented like themselves?
Do you really want to know what a man wants? He wants to have his cake, and eat it too.
If you would like me to elaborate on this let me know.
As far as what I said earlier about being detail minded. I seem to be very detailed in my responses to you.


rm_cazule1965 59M
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3/14/2007 7:31 pm

 hmmmm...

i hadn't thought about it...

but i do love tan lines...in much the same way i love a painting or a poem that has a structure that draws my eyes, often unconsciously, across the canvas or down the page a certain way (something that's going to happen whether you are male or female if the painter or poet is in control of what he or she is doing)...


kandreamer 70M

3/17/2007 11:44 am

 Tan lines or not??? Either is fine with me, afterall.......
the female body is one of the most beautiful things in the world!


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