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Oh no, no sex for 8 years ?
 

greekphilosopher 61M
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4/27/2017 1:53 pm

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Oh no, no sex for 8 years ?


Oh yeah, this is me. I had not had sex for 8 years! What? I hear you ask or scream. Close your open mouth and let me explain. I know I am a man and should see sex just for the act, and no feelings involved. And I do, when I visit one of the pros behind the windows in Amsterdam, or London.

No windows around here but there are some places with "massage" or "models" signs by some sort of red light. But some "massage" places are just that, so watch out if you are visiting! Or you can meet on some hotel or private room, via cards found in the public phone boxes.

That is just a business transaction with a woman, I need to hire her body for half an hour, to cum somewhere in or on her, and she is happy to lease it to me, for a few notes. An ejaculation and nothing more. The luxury of not seeing your hand...again! And when you are on time, you save your ear drums from the blasting alarm by your head, on the bedside table!

By the way, I never go with those who do not speak very good English, here or in the Dam, as I get a smell of people trafficking or something, and do not want to support it. I try not to anyhow.

Sex for me, in my heart of hearts, is associated with feelings. They are not and do not need to be feelings of eternal love. Is intimacy a feeling? Is the wish to know each others bodies, so you can give and take the most pleasure, another feeling? Achieving it? The waking up with your partner, after the night you spend together? The pleasure in the knowledge that she or he chose you to spend last night with? A few drinks and a nice dinner before the sex? The hug saying goodbye or see you later? I can not get any of this when I hire a pro. So I call that a business transaction, and I call having sex, the times I get all the "feelings" above.

And why did I not go out seeking someone all this time? Because I am a grumpy sod, usually not in the mood and don't want to shave everyday! Not really, though I am sure some times it was that. I went to work then gone home. I love my home comforts, the mellow smokes and beers, sometimes friends or family visiting, the privacy. Other times out with friends. And it seemed easier, a couple of times per month, go to town, spend a bit of money, and life just rolled along.

There was a series I used to watch, years ago, and there was this widower doctor, about my age, never gone seeking a date or someone, and when his colleagues asked him why, he just said "I go home, close the door, get a book, pour my self a scotch, and I am fine", and I could not agree more. I would of offered the same answer had anyone asked me.

I have been called an old romantic, and I am not as old as 55 yet but I can wear the romantic guy badge. There is nothing wrong with that. We are not all the same, not all guys are romantic, and not all women want a romantic guy. So business transactions, yes, for 8 years, but no sex! See? It can happen.

A couple of sex jokes

A 5th grader asked her mother the age-old question,

'How did I get here?'

Her mother told her, 'God sent you.'

'Did God send you, too?' asked the .

'Yes, Dear,' the mother replied.

'What about Grandma and Grandpa?' the persisted

'He sent them also,' the mother said.

'Did he send their parents, too?' asked the .

'Yes, Dear, He did,' said the mother patiently.

'So you're telling me that there has been NO sex in this family for 200 years?

No wonder everyone's so damn grouchy around here!'

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greekphilosopher 61M
4077 posts
4/27/2017 1:54 pm

 When you are looking for sex, are you a romantic like me, a frequent red light visitor conducting business, or maybe both? Would love to know, so tell me tell me!


goodatpoetry2 74M
16552 posts
4/27/2017 2:11 pm

 I think the way you think about sex is pretty damn good. . There is a difference between having sex with a partner and sex with *just someone*.

I'm more like that widow doctor. . It just doesn't seem like it's worth the bother. . If I happen to *fall into it*... that'd be nice.


KItkat1415 61F  
20051 posts
4/27/2017 2:26 pm

 I have to admit, I only want sex with people that I have some kind of friendship with...
doesn't have to be someone that I want forever, but at least that I like them and some of their hobbies and interests,
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Heathen_G 65M
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4/27/2017 2:26 pm
    Quoting  :
Sex with someone who sticks around when you find you are pregnant - Fool.


Heathen_G 65M
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4/27/2017 2:33 pm

 a). Sex with your wife - [Same as the prostitute with one addition] Commercial Contractual Union.


LimerickJohn 69M
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4/27/2017 2:49 pm

 Lol love the post but in particular the sex insurance one. 😃


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
4/27/2017 3:14 pm

 Can't tell you all- there is not enough time but I do fall into your category of enjoying my own company and my home, and books and wine rather than "hustling" or being "hustled" You wrote this tune so well!! Play the ocarina??
And the jokes are classic oyu- especially loved the Insurance
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greekphilosopher 61M
4077 posts
4/27/2017 3:17 pm
    Quoting  :
Needs have to be met playtime. And love, if and when found, it would of been an enjoyable journey. Going to google Johnny Lee now.


greekphilosopher 61M
4077 posts
4/27/2017 3:24 pm
    Quoting  :
Ha ha resident, do you want to sound like a woman with 6 kids from 8 different dads
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greekphilosopher 61M
4077 posts
4/27/2017 3:27 pm
    Quoting goodatpoetry2:
    I think the way you think about sex is pretty damn good. . There is a difference between having sex with a partner and sex with *just someone*.

    I'm more like that widow doctor. . It just doesn't seem like it's worth the bother. . If I happen to *fall into it*... that'd be nice.
Nail on the head goodatpoetry. People still drop their jaws when I tell them, erm, and I like to see them ha ha! Less bother and about the same on finances! Win-win me thinks!


greekphilosopher 61M
4077 posts
4/27/2017 3:42 pm
    Quoting KItkat1415:
    I have to admit, I only want sex with people that I have some kind of friendship with...
    doesn't have to be someone that I want forever, but at least that I like them and some of their hobbies and interests,
    kk
It has to be kitkat. Maybe more women would agree and less men, we will see. Such a difference from a stranger, as nice and sometimes lovely they can be, to someone you want, and wants you, even for the night! All the kudos.


greekphilosopher 61M
4077 posts
4/27/2017 3:44 pm
    Quoting Heathen_G:
    a). Sex with your wife - [Same as the prostitute with one addition] Commercial Contractual Union.
A lot of pros say that heathen, about marriage but hey, everything has a price, and no free lunches as they say.


greekphilosopher 61M
4077 posts
4/27/2017 3:47 pm
    Quoting Heathen_G:
    Sex with someone who sticks around when you find you are pregnant - Fool.
Not if the 2 feel "in love" or whatever that means to anyone.


greekphilosopher 61M
4077 posts
4/27/2017 3:51 pm
    Quoting LimerickJohn:
    Lol love the post but in particular the sex insurance one. 😃
Thanx limerickjohn. I recently discovered the art of posting a joke with something common to the subject. Some of the jokes have been with me for years, and is such fun discovering them again, and sharing!


greekphilosopher 61M
4077 posts
4/27/2017 4:08 pm
    Quoting pocogato12:
    Can't tell you all- there is not enough time but I do fall into your category of enjoying my own company and my home, and books and wine rather than "hustling" or being "hustled" You wrote this tune so well!! Play the ocarina??
    And the jokes are classic oyu- especially loved the Insurance
People say things don't just happen pocogato. They say you got to go out and look for them. And some of us hear that, and act on it. Like go and get a new book and our fav poison. And then we think of the what if, and attached hustle....and then we smile, open book, have a sip... keep smiling!


greekphilosopher 61M
4077 posts
4/27/2017 4:22 pm
    Quoting  :
I am usually on the tube when I travel through the A*F*F and thanx to control +C and +V, having read the lyrics as I was listening, you are so very near, well, ok, you are spot on!


LiveLifeDoU 69F  
2199 posts
4/27/2017 5:39 pm

 We are all different regarding this whole 'love-sex' thing. It sounds like you are comfortable with how things are in your life right now...kudos to you, you are quite lucky to have that peace of mind. Enjoy


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
4/27/2017 8:04 pm
    Quoting greekphilosopher:
    A lot of pros say that heathen, about marriage but hey, everything has a price, and no free lunches as they say.
everything has a price, ... Most of the time, but when you find a woman who gladly just wants to bang one out with you, [usually called NSA], then there isn't a price, unless there's an accident and you get stuck owing the 216 month bill of child support.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
4/27/2017 8:47 pm
    Quoting greekphilosopher:
    Not if the 2 feel "in love" or whatever that means to anyone.
Not if the 2 feel "in love"

Yep, still a "Fool".

The couple "Feeling", is usually only going through the euphoria of infatuation. Not "Love" at all. Having a baby only prolongs the infatuation by 3 to 4 more years.

And depending on the readiness of the particular male, this can go either really badly, or "Okay".

If he is academically and professionally [career: income wise] not ready,
then he should walk away , and see to the establishment of himself academically and professionally.
This will then be better for him in dealing with that legal responsibility of 216 [minimum] months of child support.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
4/28/2017 4:00 am

 I hope there's been some solo sex in those eight years!


greekphilosopher 61M
4077 posts
4/28/2017 11:17 am
    Quoting  :
The tube is as addictive as this place, almost. How many times I go there to listen to a couple of songs, and stay for 4 hours! Will visit his pages again, thanx.


greekphilosopher 61M
4077 posts
4/28/2017 11:20 am
    Quoting LiveLifeDoU:
    We are all different regarding this whole 'love-sex' thing. It sounds like you are comfortable with how things are in your life right now...kudos to you, you are quite lucky to have that peace of mind. Enjoy
Thanx livelife. Intimacy and knowing the person, my partner, brings out my best self, sexually or other wise.


greekphilosopher 61M
4077 posts
4/28/2017 11:25 am
    Quoting Heathen_G:
    everything has a price, ... Most of the time, but when you find a woman who gladly just wants to bang one out with you, [usually called NSA], then there isn't a price, unless there's an accident and you get stuck owing the 216 month bill of child support.
I need to go on a nice hotel to bang, as my own bed might be untidy and she may have kids at home, so there is a price, even a tiny one, compared to the 216 months. But then, I like to pay for my mistakes, as well. So if I got a girl pregnant, a woman who I did not to live with, just the accident, I would have to pay my dues. After all, she would of not had fallen pregnant on her own.


greekphilosopher 61M
4077 posts
4/28/2017 11:29 am
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I have heard this so many times hinj1. I think there is more "therapy" and "counselling" going on than pure sex! We all like to regret things we have not done! So good for you regretting nothing! It's the way to go.


greekphilosopher 61M
4077 posts
4/28/2017 11:31 am
    Quoting Heathen_G:
    Not if the 2 feel "in love"

    Yep, still a "Fool".

    The couple "Feeling", is usually only going through the euphoria of infatuation. Not "Love" at all. Having a baby only prolongs the infatuation by 3 to 4 more years.

    And depending on the readiness of the particular male, this can go either really badly, or "Okay".

    If he is academically and professionally [career: income wise] not ready,
    then he should walk away , and see to the establishment of himself academically and professionally.
    This will then be better for him in dealing with that legal responsibility of 216 [minimum] months of child support.
I am aware of that heathen, now, aged 54. At my 20's we all called it love.


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