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confessions of an exhibitionist
 
Thoughts, ideas and experiences from an exhibitionists point of view.
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The worst email...
Posted:Jul 13, 2005 8:55 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Following is a copy of an email i received...gotta wonder what this guy was thinking when he wrote this to me...

I was disgusted that he actually spent the time typing this out to send to me...

good body..you are thick but have it in all the right places..watch out though u may get fat in a few yrs..keep working out alot..looks good i would do you..not date you but do you....have a good one

That was it...from beginning to end...people would you send someone such an email...and if you would...what exactly is going through your mind...

Did the person who sent this actually think that this was a complimentary thing to say...I'm curious...
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What do you think about...
Posted:Jul 13, 2005 3:32 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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...the whole soulmate idea...

I don't think that it is nessesarily someone that you are destined to spend the rest of your life with...as a life partner...

It can be someone that when you first meet you feel an instant connection...Someone who even though you have just met...you feel like you have known them all your life...

We must all have one or more of them...possibly someone that we have known through time...in past lives...if you believe in that...

I have met one such person in my life...we met in grade seven...and although we live far away from each other and see each other very seldomly...whenever we see each other the time and distance melt away and we are the best of friends once again...we can spend hours chatting about nothing important...or life changing decisions...

Tell me about your soulmate(s) have you met him/her yet...
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great day
Posted:Jul 12, 2005 11:50 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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I had a great day today...

I got some wonderful news when i woke up this morning...something that i have been worried about for the last few days has finally been resolved...

I was walking around for most of the day with this big goofy grin on my face...

I feel like a big weight has been lifted from my shoulders and i just wanted to share my joy and happiness with you all...

Hope your day was just as wonderful...
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Today at work
Posted:Jul 12, 2005 11:31 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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I walked into the luchroom to grab my stuff...just having taken off my work shirt...wearing a small lowcut shirt...i asked him to pass me my book and coke across the table and he reaches out about 6 inches...i look him in the eye and he has a devilish grin as usual...

Wanting me to lean over the table and give him a good look...I love it so...what do i do...of course i lean over the table and he makes a show of looking down my shirt...

I love it...he works night...i work day...we only see each other a couple of minutes a couple times a week...but we have the best time...he makes me feel so sexy...always has a smile for me and makes me laugh...

I need more people like that in my life...someone with whom i can be myself...no pressure, no expectations...its great...I look forward to seeing him every week...
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Oral on an air matress
Posted:Jul 11, 2005 11:32 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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I lay on the Air matress sunbathing nude...and i hear him walking up to me trying not to make any noise...trying to surprise me...silly really...i knew he was coming...

He lays his long lanky body down beside me and runs his hand down my back...coming to rest on my firm round ass..."turn over my sweet." he whispers in my ear...sending chills down my spine...

I turn over on my stomach and he lays his hand on my breatst and leans over to take the nipple into his mouth...he sucks on it until its hard...

he slides his body down...keeping his hand on my breast playing with my nipple...his tongue licks my inner thigh and grazes my pussy before moving away...his hands run across my body leaving a trail of goose bumps...

His right hand makes its way down to my wet pussy...he teases my clit with his finger then takes in gently into his mouth wile his finger works its way inside me...

My feet are on his shoulders as he licks and sucks and fingers me...his hand moves at a steady motion hitting the G spot just right...i can feel my orgasm building...

That familiar tightness returns as my muscles spasm...My hips arch upward and my eyes close tight...Oh god yes...here it comes...i feel myself gushing over his hand as i climax...

I come back to earth and see him grinning at me...his jaw covered in my cum...licking his fingers...I sit up and look down...there is pool of my cum...
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Most popular blog list
Posted:Jul 11, 2005 11:00 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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I think that VisionPersonals.com needs to rethink their most popular blog lists...

Why is there not a most popular female blog list...I see that there are some males on the most popular list that enjoy two spots one in the male list and one in the most poluplar list...

There are only eight in the male list and eight in the couple list...yet there are 15? in the most poular list...

Should there not be three lists...with equal coverage...say 10 per list...one for Females...One for Males...One for Couples...

Whadya think?
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Posted:Jul 10, 2005 8:11 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Postes this ages ago...got lots of great feedback...and i think its worth posting again...

Gotta Love Mae West

1. Control your saliva! No woman likes to really be drooled on. The only time you want and need a little of your own juice is at the beginning of going down on a girl and she needs help getting things lubricated.

2. Keep your lips in good shape. Rough, dry, chapped lips are no fun to kiss. Break out the lip balm and use it.

3. Consider her when you decide to skip shaving. I have it on good authority razor stubble scratches, itches, and rubs a woman�s more sensitive skin raw (and no, I�m not just talking about her face) so think about that when you�re being too lazy to scrape your face for a date.

4. You hear it every day but I�ll say it again, the fresher your breath the better.

5. What worked in your early years doesn�t necessarily work now. Keep learning, keep growing, and keep trying something new. A lazy kisser is going to end up a lonely kisser.

6. The correct lip tension for kissing is quite an art. Too loose and you feel lazy and uninterested, too tight and you feel mean and tense.

7. Don�t surprise a new woman with a kiss of overwhelming force and passion. It works in the movies because it�s in the script, for you at home it may come across as attempted . Far too many times women tell me of the shock and awe (not in a good way) inspired by a man�s hundred mile an hour approach to the first kiss. It usually leaves the woman longing for the closest exit. Yes, you may be burning with desire for her but you�ve got to slowly and carefully get her libido up to the same speed as yours.

8. Kissing isn�t just for the lips. Anywhere a woman is particularly sensitive she likes to be kissed. When was the last time you kissed the nape of her neck, her wrist, the underside of her breast or between them, her ears, her stomach, the back of her knee�

9. Don�t try and figure out how sensitive her gag reflex is with your tongue while French kissing! The goal is to enjoy yourselves, not see how far down the back of her throat you can get your tongue.

10. Mix it up. Kissing in the same way for prolonged periods of time can get really boring. This isn�t a marathon for how long you can keep your tongue in her mouth. Mix up the long deep kisses with short soft ones on her forehead, her cheek, and her neck�and of course back to her lips.

11. Learn from the acting pros and don�t forget your hands. Ever wonder why women still swoon at the mention of Richard Gere�s name? The man is an ace kisser, he puts his whole body into it, and he uses his hands to coddle and caress a woman�s face, he run his hands through her hair, and leans into her with his hips. Ever watched Bull Durham? Check out Kevin Costner�s lip action (no, you don�t have to tell anyone, do your own private research man). In last year�s Cold Mountain Jude Law gives Nicole Kidman such a dazzling kiss as he runs off to war that she literally goes weak in the knees. That�s the kind of kissing action I�m talking about.

12. Don�t work too hard. Kissing is for fun and pleasure, if you�re breaking a sweat from effort (not from chemistry) you�re working too hard. Sit back, relax and let her come to you at times�don�t always be chasing her with your tongue and your hands. Learn to give and take. See what she can teach you.

13. Don�t go frenching her ears unless you know for a fact she loves it. Some women adore big wet kisses in their soundboards, but too many others HATE it. Don�t ruin a great mood by doing something that will gross her out.

14. Do tug gently on her earlobes with your teeth (again gently) when you kiss her neck and while you�re at it why not whisper a compliment or wicked suggestion?

15. Be brave enough to ask for pointers when getting to know a new woman. Remember kissing is a matter of personal taste, what one woman likes isn�t going to always work for another, but if you hear a particular suggestion more than once you know it�s something you�ve got to work on.

16. Smell good. Women have a very keen sense of smell and love a man who smells good. Don�t use so much after shave or cologne she can smell you coming before you arrive, use just enough that she can only get a whiff of it when you step in close for a hug or kiss.

17. Women love to kiss. If you�re with a woman who doesn�t like to kiss (and yes, I�ve heard of it) and it really seems to be just the act of kissing she doesn�t like (not your technique) it may be fare warning that she�s not going to like to do other physical things with you either. There are far too many beautiful women out there who love to kiss (as well as do other things) so why waste your time?

18. Kissing isn�t something you bide your time with on the way to something else (sex), it�s an art within itself. Master the art of kissing, enjoy the art of kissing, and everything else will come along more easily than you ever imagined possible. Why? Because women enjoy both kissing and sex more when they don�t feel like they�re just the goalkeeper and you�re only there to make the winning goal.

19. Leave her wanting more. Don�t kiss her so much that her lips are raw and her face aches � leave her wanting more of you, not less (especially in the beginning).
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Good bye sex...
Posted:Jul 9, 2005 11:52 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Have you ever had it?

It is wonderful...I experienced it for the first time last night...

That was our last night together...he came over and we cuddled on the couch and watched Blade 3...I know not really romantic...but its our thing...

When the movie was finished we talked for a bit then moved into my bedroom...We had the best sex we've ever had...i came three times...and i was so wet that when he pulled out my juices were literally dripping off his cock...When i mounted him i soaked him as i came for the third time...

Wow...i still can't get over it...
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Watched blogs...
Posted:Jul 9, 2005 4:33 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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I don't have very many blogs on my watched blogs list...I don't spend a whole lot of time at other people's blogs...In fact I have a grand total of three blogs on my list...

[blog the_taker]

[blog DDL007]

[blog chagi_guy]

They are all men...does that say something about me?

These guys have great stories to tell and interesting things to say...check 'em out...they are worth it...

How many people do you have on your watched blogs list?
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What are you hoping to find...
Posted:Jul 8, 2005 6:12 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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I personally sined up on this site hoping to meet someone for a friends with benefits situation...

I have met that person...but as long as everyone is safe...there is always room for another...

I have stopped actively searching profiles...mainly they catch my eye through my blog...That is usually where i am these days...If someone interesting/nearby contacts me i will follow through...

I'm ashamed to admit i haven't even checked my smile/hotlist in like a month...

What are yall expecting to get out of this site?

Have you been satisfied with the way it is going?

ciao all

take care
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GRRRRRR!!!
Posted:Jul 8, 2005 5:39 pm
Last Updated:May 3, 2012 5:07 pm
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Aparently i should have knocked on wood when i wrote that last blog...

I hate computers!!!

So after reformatting both my computers numerous times...and spending $150 for hardware...oh well it needed doing...i am finally back online

Knock on wood!!! (she whispers with her fingers crossed, stroking her rabbit's foot and clutching her horshoe)

Keep your fingers crossed for me...
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I'm better now
Posted:Jul 7, 2005 12:29 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Thanks all for bearing with me while i fixed my computer...

Its been a frustrating couple of days...I had my laptop working for about an hour yesterday...but not long enough damnit ...

Just spent half an hour replacing the power supply in my desktop and YIPPEE!!!
Its working...finally...

So i'm back...see yah all soon...
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Casual sex vs fuck buddy
Posted:Jul 4, 2005 11:35 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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What do you see as the difference between the two terms...

Well first of all i hate the term fuck buddy...i prefer to call it friends with benefits...

I see the main difference is that with casual sex there is no connection what so ever...some one with whom that is all there will ever be is just sex...

Where as with a friend with benefits...there is a connection...someone with whom you could just spend the hiking or go out for coffee...or just spend an hour on the phone chatting about nothing and everything...

Thoughts?
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