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My definition of FWB  

itzchic824 37F
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5/13/2015 7:53 pm

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My definition of FWB

I know guys think a fwb is fuck and see ya next time.

Simply put, my definition is talk - ya know text, maybe a convo here and there on the phone on occasion; hang out - go out to a concert, for a drink, bowling, whatever floats our boats; and lots of sex on a regular basis. Also cuddling after/between sex is kind of a must. I had a guy who didn't do that and it was so damn awkward to go from sex and all that touching to nothing.

Some guys will say that's bordering on a relationship and I suppose so. But the difference is the cuddling and touching is just in private not PDAs like holding hands and kissing in public.

If you want a fuck and see you next time, then move along, you will not change my mind. I can't do stranger one night stand sex. Not worth it.
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Mike32728 52M
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5/13/2015 8:00 pm

 The FWB route is an empty one.

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itzchic824 replies on 5/13/2015 8:04 pm:
well then what are my options?

AlvinBooth 70M
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5/13/2015 9:38 pm

 This guy doesn't think FWB is fuck and say ya next time. I agree with you.

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ProfPlayful 53M
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5/14/2015 2:05 pm

 Some of us do share your definition, itzchic824. It is a shame that many men do not realize the importance of human touch, holding, and cuddling for the production of oxytocin. They are the ones who are missing out on a great pleasure.
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ontarget 76M
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5/19/2015 9:34 pm

 By definition a friend is a person you like and in return likes and respects you,therefore a friend with benefits is a friend first and foremost as well as a great lover.


rm_licksucku69 44M
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8/2/2015 2:20 pm

 fun wit bestfren .. i say


rm_BIGGriZZ41 41M
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9/17/2015 10:26 pm

 a "fuck and see you later" is a fuck buddy

fwb is a friend that you don't mind having sex with while you both are single.
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itzchic824 replies on 9/19/2015 7:19 am:
That isn't what I've come across on here. Most guys think a FWB is a FB definition.

FlyinPhotog 51M
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9/19/2015 12:51 am

 I agree with BIGGriZZ41 - Fuck and see ya next time is a Fuck Buddy, or FB, while a hang out, go to dinner, fuck, stay the night, see ya next time is a friend with benefits (an oversimplification, but you get the point).

Inasmuch as I am using my own definitions, neither a FB or FWB would qualify as a one nighter. A fuck buddy you see from time to time to take care of one another's mutual needs. A friend with benefits you see whenever for whatever reasons and sex may or may not be involved.

Just my .02 worth
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Aries41478 46M

9/22/2015 6:16 am

 That is really good definition of FWB


hornyguyMN 43M
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2/14/2016 6:13 pm

 I agree with you definition. A friend with benefits is just that a friend. So that component needs to be there. Have to admit I would be extremely happy with a fwb like this.


dan_nl_2006 42M
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6/4/2016 7:54 pm

 Totally agree on the importance of touching and exploring each other's body and cuddling. Sex is not about a quick relief (well most of the time)

Why do you think a BF will not happend?


oxyford2002 53M
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1/8/2017 7:41 am

 I agree with your definition of FWB. The first word is "friend's". So FWB is an extension of being friends. It is bonus points so to speak!!!!


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