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69 with bigger woman and smaller guy
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69 with bigger woman and smaller guy I only tried 69 once like 5 or so years ago and I was so preoccupied with feeling so awkward and that I was just too big to be in such a position and the unflattering view he was getting of me, that it didn't last long and I never did it again. I've always had issues with my body and been so self conscious when naked in front of someone. My current guy wanted me to try it with him last time and I just didn't. But I think it's more out of habit from my past than feeling awkward with him. He's the one I've written about that makes me feel way smaller than my size and feel so good about myself. I am teetering on trying it with him since he has been different with other things than my past partners. But I also was wondering what are you guys' experiences? Bigger woman with a guy who was a smaller body type. I should also mention my one time I did 69 the guy was a bigger body type and I still felt like I was gonna suffocate him or something. But like I said, my current guy makes me feel different, so I think this feeling may be my default and I need to try it with him. Plus I mean it's not like I'm hundreds of pounds bigger than him. It's like a 70 pounds difference and he has some muscle, so he's not a scrawny dude. I sent an Angel to watch over you last night, it returned in a hurry. I asked why, it said "Angels can't watch porn." Thanks for fucking traumatizing my fucking Angel! Don't bother trying to figure me out. Not even the little voices in my head understand me. It's pointless! |
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Honestly, a guy won't ask you to do something unless he really wants to do it. So, with that in mind, drop those inhibitions, be the beautiful woman you are and let him enjoy that moment. If you do that, you might learn to enjoy 69 and that is ALWAYS a good thing. One on one consult - For all your love and relationship needs. The one question challenge - One free question! Ask me anything!
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I have had the pleasure of being with some bigger women and never felt uncomfortable when playing 69. If he is making you more comfortable about yourself, and he already wants to try it...give it a shot... Hope it makes you feel good when it happens too 
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Stop feeling self conscious about your body. Just stop it right now! You look wonderful and you're very sexy and very pretty. I don't like sixty nine because I like to concentrate on one thing at a time and I don't think I can pleasure her properly when my attention is diverted. So we trade off. But if it's fun for you, just do it. He'll let you know if it isn't working. And if it isn't, do something else- sex is fun! Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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Just do it, if your partner wants to and he should know you best, why not??
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I have done 69 many times with a plus sized woman. He should have no problem supporting you and, if he is turned on by you, he will absolutely enjoy the view. Just be confident with yourself, that is very sexy. Then relax so you can thoroughly enjoy the experience.
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There is probably about a 70 pound weight difference between myself & my Mack. We love doing 69 but we mostly put him on top. It has more to do with my knees than body issues. I used to be incredibly self conscious, but that disappeared with age & my loving myself more than I criticize myself. Try blustering through your insecurity. Don't be afraid to try different positions based on your size. You might be surprised at what really works best for you. 
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I say go for it. I personally love it, and think it's great. But you have to be comfortable. Try it...you'll like it! Embrace the suck
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Like AudioFilly, I prefer 69 when the guy is on top..... so that's what I suggest if the position is brought up. Not many men will say no when you say "I'd love to...... I'll be on the bottom!"
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I'm really too self conscious myself to relax and enjoy it. But if I were on the bottom... maybe... 2022... it HAS be better, right?!
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12/30/2014 11:27 am |
I get on top and put my elbows under her knees and thighs... just opens everything up quite nicely.
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