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French kissing - anyone want to give some advice?  

itzchic824 37F
1215 posts
9/20/2014 4:31 pm

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French kissing - anyone want to give some advice?

I feel like I am bad at french kissing. I feel awkward and like I'm not doing it right, therefore I don't do it. But I always wonder what I'm missing, plus I wonder if my partner wishes I would and maybe it's pushing him away by me not doing it. I love to kiss, I will kiss quite a lot. But I just don't know how to french kiss right.

Maybe I just need an actual longterm guy where I feel totally comfortable with him to do this. I don't know really. I do know he needs to be understanding.

Can anyone give me some pointers?
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9/20/2014 5:38 pm

 I don't think there is a "right" way to do it, everybody's going to like something different. I love twisting my tongue around someone else's, but don't like when someone tried to stick their tongue deep into my mouth... Ask what the guy likes... Or totally agree with the above comment about copying what they do...


AudioFilly 58F  
1897 posts
9/20/2014 5:49 pm

 I think the best way to French kiss is the same as achieving a good orgasm...quite thinking about it so much & just relax into it & feel it.

Take your time. Breathe his breath. Slow exploring tongues are sexy...tight darting tongues are not. I usually go with what feels good in the moment. Sometimes a little licking, sometimes I suck his tongue a little as he explores me.

If visuals would help, there are some interesting videos on the tube...or even watch some Trey Songz videos...that man can kiss.


itzchic824 replies on 9/24/2014 6:37 pm:
Well maybe that's why. I've never had an orgasm either. I think too much and can't let go, so that probably is why I don't feel I feench kiss right either.

kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
9/20/2014 5:55 pm

 It would be easier to show you than to explain it...
Just do what you like, what you enjoy. Your lips and tongue are a lot more sensitive than your fingers. Feel his lips and tongue with yours...explore and taste. Brush lips softly. Lick his lips- they're soft and they taste good. Sometimes really softly, barely touching, and now and then a bit harder, more assertively. I'm betting that if you relax and enjoy what YOU are doing, he'll love it.
I'm also thinking that it would be truly inspirational to be kissing you.
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itzchic824 replies on 9/24/2014 6:38 pm:
I've never had someone for something as intimate as that. It was usually quick kissing and sex. My current guy is new and I have talked to him about maybe showing me and all, and he's up for it so we'll see.

cinnamonx 54F
458 posts
9/21/2014 2:57 pm

 Just like your driving lessons...practice makes perfect. When you are really into someone and the lust takes over, just relax. Start small and go with the flow. Try not to have too much saliva, I hate sloppy kisses personally. For me, despite a lovers sexual prowess, it's the tender kisses on the lips that get me sensually aroused to want to go further. So important!


itzchic824 replies on 9/24/2014 6:39 pm:
I love kissing, don't get me wrong, but I think too much when it comes to French kissing.

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