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Sex talk with hubby  

dawnadoll 55F
904 posts
6/23/2015 4:33 pm

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6/24/2015 10:20 pm
Sex talk with hubby

We were relaxing in bed just talking about general things. I asked if he was in the mood, he said no. I then asked if it was me he said no.I followed with did he miss sex, he said no. said he now has no urge or interest in sex. I asked if he was turned on by me he said yes. so I then replied with why was he never in the mood. he said he didn't know. I then asked was he in the mood before the weight loss and he said yes with a comment that when he lost all the weight he lost every urge for sex.

since he lost all the weight we have sex may once every 3-6 months and maybe once a month with toys if I am lucky. it is frustrating and tiring. I need sex. it is relaxing and my body gets this overwhelming warm feeling. It is dearly missed.

It is taking a toll on the marriage, sex adds a closeness and connection that i need. he holds me often and rub my back but these are short lived. Yes I know sex is not what makes a marriage. and we talk and communicate but sex is important to me.

Yes he knows I am on here and he lets me see other men. It is me who wants more than sex and he knows this too. He likes to watch and it turns him on. I don't know if now he could even perform by watching before yes he was turned on and hard immediately but now I have no idea.

What suggestions do you have?
someonespecial_68

Dawnadoll
Needaltlsomthn2 58F
709 posts
6/23/2015 7:45 pm

 Read up on Adrenal Fatigue. I'm sorry. Insurance doesn't cover much of the new Bio-identical stuff anyway. The money would be well spent, think if the price of your marriage. : (
If you don't stand for something , you will fall for anything !


dayzeeme 55F
7024 posts
6/23/2015 5:09 pm

 he needs to tell his doctor about this, and they need to come up with a plan.


dawnadoll replies on 6/23/2015 5:29 pm:
Right now he don't have insurance, I barely got insurance a week ago. He can't get it for a year. I miss having sex with him he is an amazing lover. He has always cared about all the needs until this weight loss.. he has put some weight back on and he can get hard sometimes but it never stays that way.

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