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dawnadoll 55F
904 posts
1/15/2014 11:20 am

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1/15/2014 6:02 pm
your opinion

As I have stated my husband lets me see other men. This is partly because I have a higher sex drive than him, he has had medical issues so now his performance is a factor, he wants me happy he knows I enjoy sex. He doesn't do the simple things of complimenting me, touching, romance anything. to him the romance is letting me sleep in. I have told him a kiss, touch, card, love out of the blue would do so much, he states he isn't that kind of man

He however, does not have permission to see anyone, other than a blow job I do everything he asks. as for the blow job I suck and use my hand and other things it is the climaxing part i cannot do. Yet, even though he doesn't have permission I have caught him in an affair, it was not sexual yet he got caught before it could happen because they lived in two different states. but the emotional side was worse. He put so much of himself into and things he doesn't do for me (still).

Do you feel it is unfair for me to be able to see others and he is not allowed to?
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aman4u1962a 61M
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1/15/2014 2:48 pm

 In a way it is unfair, but I understand it. I'm kind of in the same boat. I'm here because my wife is not interested in sex. If she were, I would have no reason to be here. If I caught my wife banging some other guy I would be angry and hurt as that would mean she is indeed interested in sex, but just not with me. At that point I think our marriage would be over.

It sounds like you may be at that point. He doesn't want to do things with you, but is looking to do them with someone else.


dawnadoll replies on 1/15/2014 6:12 pm:
aman, yes at one point he was and i know he still is in a couple groups but has not contacted any, he gives me his passwords. This came about with the emotional affair. I know he tried but his health has made things change drastically. I still want to go to a hotel for a week when I get a job just to have some time. I don't know if i can live like this for much longer. I need more. I did notice him trying today, now will he keep it up I have no idea. But when I am talking to someone or he knows i am meeting someone he is more turned on. I know that sounds strange but it is a fact.

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