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7/29/2014 2:22 pm |
well i do love giving oral to a women to the point of her passing out and i have done that a few several times to women
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I have been honored to be graced with partners who have all at the minimum known the "giving and receiving" idea and have been on board. I did have a partner who did not swallow. It wasn't a "you're icky" it was a texture issue. She had the same issue with food. Truly great partners tend to have the same attitude as me, "I want you to be happy and want to do everything I can to make you that way". With a passionate relationship, it is sharing pleasure with a partner and having pleasure in their pleasure. Well, that's my two cents worth. Take it easy, guns are cold. 
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I've been very lucky, the first time I ever had sex she sucked my cock --- whether it was good or not I had no way to judge, but how bad can enthusiastic oral sex be? The only reason I would not breakup is that I pretty much know going in if they enjoy doing it or not. I know some women fake it (men too) until they hook the person, but it isn't too hard to tell for a man if she is really liking it. I'll grant it is probably easier for men to fake it because women often have such low expectations of our skills in the first place. Sex without oral is incomplete for me. Even if we have intercourse first I will try to give her a second orgasm orally, and I have never had a partner who didn't at least take care of me the next morning if she was too wiped out by orgasm to do it right then. I like the incredible intimacy of performing oral sex on a woman. I like the taste, smell, feel, and the heat of a woman's pussy. I like to make her writhe, swear, sweat, lose control, and hear her cry out. I like my face, throat, and chest soaked with her fluids, it glazed on my chin, and my jaw and tongue a little tender getting her there. I actually like doing it so much that a few women have had minor accidents and I still didn't stop until she came.. I have been lucky that the worst oral I ever got was still sincere and enthusiastic. A few times I've even had more than one mouth at a time dueling over it with their mouths. and I am grateful to every woman who has ever taken me in her mouth whatever her level of skill at it, because not one of them made me feel it was something they had to do and not wanted to do I hope they have all known how much I wanted to please and enjoy them orally. I certainly tried to show them.  Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated. 
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I feel very shallow saying I'd break up with a guy that didn't like giving (and receiving) oral sex... but I think I would have an issue with it. Thankfully I've never had to deal with such an issue. I did, however, once meet a guy taht didn't even like touching down there. Well: he did... but the moment he could he ran and washed his hands. "I hate being dirty". I realize that's his OCD cross to bear... and thankfully we decided to just be best friends for life and no romantic interest because I would NOT have been able to handle that.
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7/29/2014 4:48 pm |
Yes, I have moved on from girlfriends who didn't give or appear to enjoy giving/receiving. Oral sex is a big part of sex for me.
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Oral is what makes the world go round, giving and receiving is so much fun. 
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In my early twenties, a lady had pursued me with some vigor. Our second meeting we had quick but good sex, but the time frame was tight and foreplay wasn't in the budget. We ran into each other at a club a few days later and she asked me to her house to spend the night. I went down on her and expected the same from her when I finished. She said, "I don't give head. I had a bad experience once." We had good sex that night, but I never saw her again, primarily because she wouldn't give head after I had eaten her. To be fair, if I was really into her, I would have nurtured the relationship and I am sure I could have gotten her into giving me head, but I just wasn't feeling her.
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I've never actually ended a relationship when I didn't get a blowjob, but it was a disappointment. I didn't groom down there when I was in my 20's, so that may have been part of the problem, but who knows, because they only said they just didn't like it. But the sex overall was fantastic. I will always go down on a woman anytime...I love pussy!  Funny women are incredibly sexy!
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I have not ended a relationship because of no oral. But I do miss oral a lot of the time.
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I love to give and receive as well, but I find having an orgasm from oral is too intense. Just a little attention is good for me but I like to give until the lady is "happy". I'd be more apt to break up with someone that didn't like to receive.
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Nothing better than a cock-worshiper!
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Oral sex is one of the two way streets in my relationship world. Deal breaker for sure. If she doesent like it done till she cums -- Deal Braker... If she doesnt like to suck me -- Deal Braker. As I grow older my tolerences become less and less. I like what I like and I hope she likes what I have to offer. I love to pleasure a woman oraly and I love to be taken care of in that way too. It's a lot of fun
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I love giving oral sex. I've stopped seeing women because they don't like to receive it. I am a giver. I love feeling a girl get turned on as I eat her. I love bending a girl over, pulling down her panties, and eating her ass and pussy from behind. Don't get me wrong; I love blow jobs. But I've never broken up with anyone because of a lack of them. Pleasuring the woman is my main priority. Good post. Hell, all of them are good.
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No, i have had enough oral tun in my relationships Hmm, i could need a hot blowjob now... 
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No, all the women I've been with have all enjoyed both giving and receiving oral. To me there's nothing more satisfying than having a lady cum while your giving some oral. The taste and the shudders as she cums are amazing. I do enjoy a good blow job too, not necessarily to cum but as fore play.
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No, would not end just because of a BJ, or any other part of sex that they would not do or poor at. Most were an inability to connect as a couple, sex not a factor. Romance her heart, tease her body, enjoy the company shared in bed n out! Treasure every moment spent together, in good times n bad! Cum visit my blog, you're always welcum! submokey Become a watcher! THINK PINK!
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No. When I think about it I have never had a great blow job. Perhaps the expectation is that it should be better than it possibly can be.   The perversity of the universe is unbounded.
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well SandraD... I like both giving and receiving... have been told a few times, I should ease up when giving... I get into it, just saying... and get creative... and when receiving, I like it any way she wants to give it... as long as she knows whats she doing - have only had one girl - back in high school - who scraped her teeth along the length of my cock... I did not think that was pleasant at all... by the time we broke up - she knew how to suck a cock... in short - I have not been with anyone who would not suck my cock... and there hasn't been any female whose pussy wasn't pleased orally... LL...  ~~~~~~~~~~~~~
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Great pig's..... nice, very nice ........ no, I haven't ended a relationship based upon lack of oral sex, usually there are other issues, that lead up to losing interest.... However, I thoroughly enjoy giving and receiving oral nothing taste better than a sweet piece.....
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I sure have. I love giving and receiving.
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7/30/2014 4:23 am |
Top or bottom, u pick and lets start lickin
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Oral...is the most intimate way to please your lover...... it is a must
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Fascinating! I guess I've been lucky in that I really can't recall being with any partner that wasn't into every aspect of oral. Maybe it's the type of women that I attract or am attracted to (lol, like you, see!), who knows! But, considering your question, I would never feel sexually fulfilled without giving oral to a partner until she had at least one orgasm, so I guess that would be a prerequisite to developing or staying in a relationship. For me, I enjoy receiving oral as well and probably would also not end up in a relationship with a partner that wasn't into giving oral to me. I guess it comes down to me really getting off on the concept of my partner being able to 'kick back', relax, and KNOW that the next period of time, however long that might be, is going to be ALL about me getting her off manually and orally, and with toy play, etc thrown in if need be, until she cums at least once, and preferably several times. Then after that has happened, I like to 'kick back', relax, and let my partner go to work on me manually and orally KNOWING that it's now going to be all about my pleasure until I either cum or decide that I want to move the action from her mouth to her pussy! Can't imagine being in a relationship with anyone that didn't conceptually see the world of sex from that same perspective as me! T
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Never ended a relationship because of BJ's but presumably that's because I wouldn't enter into a relationship with someone who doesn't appreciate the oral part of sex. I'm fairly vocal about my oral desires (giving & receiving) either discussed prior to or during the first sexual encounter. Best way I know to feel each other out (not up) is to have the honest but potentially awkward conversation about sexual compatibility. Now I don't go talking about it on the first meet, a bit too crass for me but when the moment presents itself I will broach the subject. I find most women appreciate the honesty and forthrightness if not the subject matter. btw - bad BJ's just means more practice and gentle guidance - same applies to cunnilingus. As long as they truly want to and not just doing it because they think they have to - that's where bad oral sex comes from. Here's hoping your basket is empty Basket Theory and your algebra skills are improving Algebra is Like Sex
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