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LET'S BE HONEST....
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LET'S BE HONEST.... Ok I have a friend, and no I do not mean myself. My friend is real. We had met at a local Meet and Greet. She is almost 50. She is very kind and sweet and attractive for her age. She married at 16 and had been in long term relationships every since. Now she is trying dating and it is not working out so well for her. I think she is a bit naive, and believes anything a man tells her. I just don't understand what is going on. She meets men and after only a few weeks they loose interest. For some reason they will call her when they want a booty call, but she is not allowed to call them when she wants one. This is the third one in the past 6 months. The same thing over and over again. She comes to me for advice and I just don't know what to tell her any more. I have told her to set up the rules before becoming involved. To find out honestly what they want. If there is no connection, then just move on. Some say she is clingy and attaches too quickly. But some men like that, don't they? I mean I know for a fact that some men on this site want more than a once in a month meeting. Some even want a relationship. So tell me, why do the men loose interest all of a sudden? I mean there had to be an attraction at the first meeting. Have I just been really really lucky and met men with a soul and substance? A man who will call and just say hello, how are you doing. I have met the men she has been with and I find them to be nice enough. I just don't know. What do you men think? What makes you loose interest in a woman so quickly? Thanks all |
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4/17/2007 2:04 pm |
Nothing else to say Kendofun hit the nail on the head.
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4/18/2007 2:50 pm |
Well well well. So I decide to take a peak back in and see whats going on in my self imposed absence and one of my favorite bloggers Blogs on a touchy subject with me.....lol....ready???? Most men are pig's plain and simple! They love the chase! They will say and do almost anything to get a piece of ass and then once they get it the thrill of the chase is pretty much over! It doesn't matter how long it is that you see them. It could be a night or months before you put out but once you do wellllll........Yeah Yeah I sound bitter and harsh but I have learned this from first hand experience. You can be open and honest with them in what your looking for and can express what it is that you are seeking but the results are usually pretty much the same in my experience. Once sex becomes involved the guys loose interest no matter how good the sex was and look for their next conquest. Tell your friend that I said good luck in her quest for finding a good honest man from this site and if she finds out the secret in finding a good man then pleasseeeeeee let me know...lol....I have no luck with men and no matter how nice I am or what I do I still have the same thing happen to me as to her. Shrugs..... one of the many reason's why I decided to take a break from this site, the men on here are looking for ass only and nothing else. But strangely I have run across the same exact problem from men in the real world....go figure...lol.... Have fun and be safe everyone. From the bitter old perpetually single fat chick who has given up on meeting any decent quality men...lol.....
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Kendo and nottosure--Thank you both for you male point of view. I believe a woman should get to know a little more about a man if she wants more than one night too. The sad part is my friend actually did not sleep with this man the night she met him. She went to a bar/restaurant to meet again and talk. It wasn't until the third meeting until they actually became intimate. This was the route I told her to take instead of getting intimate on the first meeting. I am all out of advice for her. All my friend says she wants is someone to meet up with once a week and maybe have conversation once in a while. Is that really too much to ask for?? Thanks again
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FROSTY--- You know just how much I admire you! You are independent and strong! I am glad to see you stop in once and a while. I will not feel sorry for you. I have been to the parties and have on every occasion been so envious of how the men flock to you or sit and talk about how beautiful you are! I know you are not a size 4 and I am far from that myself but you are still a very sexy and desired woman. Maybe you have not made that click you are looking for, but I know it will happen. I will not give up hope and neither should you. It seems hope is the only thing that keeps me going. Take care Frosty. I know that prince on a white horse will come riding in for you. And while you are on your sabbatical from VisionPersonals.com, love your piece of mind and enjoy yourself!
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4/21/2007 11:27 am |
Snickers...don't feel sorry for me sweets...it's all good! Big Hugs!
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