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Blogs > Linc1912 > Smartazz resides here

Lowering your standards for women  

Linc1912 47M
369 posts
3/10/2019 10:28 am

Last Read:
2/29/2020 3:47 pm
Lowering your standards for women
This is one of those topics where you have to sit and really think on in here.

You ever feel like you always find a petty reason to not talk to someone?
Their hair is too short,
Their ass is too small,
They're not Caucasian
Their words seem like they would be disrespectful,
Their profile pix are all blurry,
Their photos show alot of different partners,
The words on their profile are mostly misspelled,

[Ok, so many some of those weren't Petty, but they DO occur]

Let society tell the story, and itll say women are always having to lower their standards to get a guy.
For marriage,
for a boyfriend,
for a FWB.

But what isn't widely discussed is that US MEN lower our standards to get women. (Shocking i know)
Sometimes because of our location on here, the pickings can be pretty SLIM. Sometimes the ladies have a lot more choices than we do. Sometimes leaving us men to have that conversation in our heads... "Maybe i should WIDEN my desired age bracket." Now it says 22-42 on his profile.
Or he will start talking to women he normally wouldn't talk to.

Even i have had women read my profile and tell me;
" You're asking for too much from women here."
"Maybe you should aim lower."

It can be discouraging trying to find someone who meets your standards. There were a few times i had to ask myself if i was putting the bar TOO HIGH for people to reach. Then i saw that im not asking for nothing that DECENT women shouldn't be against anyway. Its not like i am looking for a FISTING candidate. Is it wrong to lower them? maybe it is. But on a site like this- what is a guy gonna do to find someone?


~Linc was here.~
BBCPleasures76 47F
1 post
5/24/2019 5:24 pm

 Correction!
When all else fails, keep your standards where they are!


traveljunkie13 56F
11089 posts
3/12/2019 3:43 pm

 I don't think anyone should lower their standards. That being said...I do believe that there's a lot of people on here and on every other site and in real life who should up their game. People have gotten incredibly lazy about making themselves appealing to a potential partner.


Linc1912 47M
978 posts
3/10/2019 10:29 am

 Opinions welcomed!
~Linc was here.~


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