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Does the appeal of the Bad Boy ever wear off? Or is it permanent....  

Linc1912 47M
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1/12/2014 1:20 pm

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2/17/2014 7:51 am
Does the appeal of the Bad Boy ever wear off? Or is it permanent....

As far back as some women can remember...They wanted the BAD BOY. The Jimmy dean from "Rebel without a cause"
the Johnny depp from "Cry Baby"
Saun Penn
the dude who is always willing to do something for you when its convenient for him..

(I bet there are some panties that just got wet.. )

They cant RESIST the Bad Boy!

The one who was in trouble in school,
bad attitude,
or wore the black jacket and made his own code to live by.
Be the Center of their own world.
He doesn't ask for your approval or permission

A "bad boy" is bad because he knows that he is more valuable to himself than others are to him.

And this is what seem to gravitate towards. I think because they don't know any better. Im sure they FEEL they do, but in time, they will have to find something better suited. That's NOT saying he will be DULL, BORING, SAFE, OR MUNDANE.

A lady in her 30s how was attracted to bad boys back in the 1990s told me; A bad boy is so charming to girls, because all he really wants to do is have sex with the pretty ones, so he's become very good at charming them, but it's all fake - he's not nice at all. especially when he moves onto the next pretty face girl.

Do women ever OUTGROW the phase? Can they make the bad boy someone that they can Trust?
Depend on?
To help build them up?
Be the voice when your feeling very self conscious in life?
OR
do they continue to be selfish, and when they are at their wits end...
when the Bad Boy is no longer interested..
when theres no other choice..
Do they start to look for the dependable guy.

The guy that will make YOU a priority.
The one that will treat them like they are suppose to be treated.
And fuck your brains out as there will be nothing off limits.

I feel bad for those women. How many good dudes will they past up in favor of the Bad boy? Can you turn a bad boy into something long term? or are you ok with being the side chick, or his "favorite fuck".
And how long will it last before the Appeal wares off? How long will the hurt of being cast aside for an "ideal" last? I guess I am going to find out.

I think it will be a while until she figures that out. Its a shame.
~Linc was here.~
40BATS 54F
197 posts
2/12/2014 4:03 pm

 I think the best analogy I can give is like a man wanting to be with a stripper rather than a teacher. A stripper gives the illusion of someone who is versed in the sexual arts. She can leave you panting and wanting more, like a drug. But the teacher is more like a calm sea, gentle and soothing.
Most men want that adrenaline rush. Some women do too. But most women think that they are "The One". That the bad boy will settle down with them and become respectable. But think about it. If you tame the bad boy, he is no longer appealing. So, so you go looking for a replacement "bad boy"?
sugar and Katz are correct. It is the novelty. It, eventually wears off because most bad boys can never commit. But always waiting is the nice guy/girl. But how long will they wait?


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