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Friends with Benefits...How many "Friends" do you need?
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Friends with Benefits...How many "Friends" do you need? Most guys on here have run into this situation atleast once. Where they find a woman and she seems to be what the dude wants in a FWB, but then she starts talking to her OTHER FWB's. "She already has 3 guys, and is looking for another one?" Either the dude is like COOL- OK- IM ALL FOR IT!!! or He makes a constipated face and starts lookin at the walls for some reason. I know the definition is something along the lines of "someone you sleep with on the regular with no responsibility, or feeling/emotion to be her boyfriend.... Right?! And most women say CATCHING FEELINGS IS PROHIBITIED. But I am wondering, how many FWB's do you need at one time? I mean hell-- Women only have ONE vagina, and men have ONE dick last I checked ( I took anatomy class. I remember one woman said she had a dude that licked pussy good.. a dude with a big dick.. a dude that liked to take her out.. a dude that liked to give her $$... that's 4 dudes. That's 4 different Dicks. But really, that's a busy schedule to keep! Maybe Im just old fashioned in my FWB stance. Do I need a few women? Nahh- as us men realize.. dealing with ONE female is usually strenuous enough! As long as she meets MOST of my requirements, I'll be content with just one. That way, I'll eventually learn what she likes, and give her that much more pleasure. Instead of thinking (Umm, what was that thing she liked? Oh shit, wrong girl!) Just my opinion, but it just seems kinda greedy. I AM NOT SAYING- it will lead to catching of feelings, but it COULD lower the risk of catching something else... One at a time!! You cant keep 4 dudes happy without giving out alotta pussy in a week. And you know atleast ONE of them knows whats going on. That lady that had 4 dudes? That's just ridiculous. If it's not working out, you DO have the option to REVOKE their benefits! And who wants to be without benefits in THIS world....  ~Linc was here.~ |
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I would like to have just 1 fwb. And, I have to agree with you Linc, if you have a good fwb, others shouldn't come into play. He/she should be versatile enough to keep both the friendship and sex interesting. Now don't get me wrong, I have male friends, but not with benes.
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Marry Christmass
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Gee. even one would be great!
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I can do with several ladies when the meeting is sporadic. I have juggled 2-3 at once in that situation. I define sporadic as about once or twice a month. Now when they're all local, and always want to chat and/or fuck one or two times a week? No, I'll just take one. One is plenty in that case. Aut viam inveniam aut faciam Tips for Guys to Meet Women  Things i miss most about relationships
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I have two guys I see on a regular basis which is once a month. Then there are three others who I see occasionally. For me I love sexual variety, I simply do not want to be monogomous. And yes they each bring a different energy a different feel for me. All the guys know I am seeing others, the only time I got the "constipated" face is when one saw the bruises/marks left on me by another. That was a first mistake I have not made since, esp with that one. I have to say I am the happiest I have ever been. This has been going on for a few years now and no one has had a problem with "catching feelings" or "catching anything else" Here I Am Practice What You Preach   
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