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A guy with a backbone, vs the guy that has no spine
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A guy with a backbone, vs the guy that has no spine I have seen two types of guys on here:  {image} The guy with a backbone. HE has standards. limits. Expectations. He will converse with a woman and show flashes of maturity, and tell you things may not be a good fit. Doesn't have Nut dripping off some girls face in HIS pictures. Dare I say shows a sense of humor?! Some guys know just because this is a sex site, doesn't mean you cant display a PERSONALITY on here. Who knows- maybe women might be drawn to it more then a 14inch dick.. SHRUGGS. Then there's the spineless guy. Basically a Snake that can type. He says he's looking for a female 18-80. (i.e will fuck anyone that he can get his dick in) Will say shit like "no fat chicks", but will talk to a big girl in hopes of getting his dick sucked. Has NO standards whatsoever, and back peddles like he's on the tightrope at the circus. Im even interested in guys, but those types piss me off because it makes it harder to stand out to the ladies who are tired of the slithering punks on here..Im not sure how the ladies deal with them. Well, besides not responding to the majority of emails..lol Keep weeding through the emails ladies; eventually you'll find that email that will make you respond to,and not just perv the profile! Or Im just speaking about my letters that rarely get responded to. Either way! ~Linc was here.~ |
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I agree with PinUp with her test. I've seen it too. As far as being nicely declined, we've all experienced it (I think) and it's not always taken well and that's a different thing than what she's talking about. It's the manipulation that sucks.
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Yes, but they were declined by you, you weren't being an asshole to get into their pants. I've had this discussion with one of my readers and he said that some men use asshole pickups because anger and desire are similar emotions. Their goal is to confuse the two (not that they probably do it consiously). Some women will fall for the asshole behavior as dominacewhen in reality they're just manipulative douchebags. Personally, I tend to be intrigued by men that challenge my view of things, but it can be done in a respectful way. I prefer men that have standards and stand by them, but some standards are meant to be reconsidered. For example: I tend to not be attracted to men who are shorter than me or have no hair (I have a hair fetish. *shrugs*) however, I wasn't so closed minded to not meet with ones that peeked my curiosity because I didn't want to miss out on a great connection because I have issues with bald short guys. I'm just saying that some "standards" can come across as shallow, so keep yourself open to something different. And Nekkid... Classy and Nekkid
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I think this site promoted stupidity in men. For example, they had that promo guaranteeing anyone could get laid or they'd give them free membership (or some shit like that). What does that tell men? You can act like a huge douchebag and still get laid. Um...NO! I've told many men on here that to get a date they have to do several things... 1) Treat women with respect. Even though this is a sex site and some women are looking for nameless/faceless fucks, they still need to know that you're not gonna treat them like a proatitute (unless they tell you they're into that). 2) Read our damn profiles and pick one thing to show interest on and most of us don't want to hear how good you're gonna do us. The reality is that a whole lotta people think they're good at sex/kissing/oral/anal/blahblahblah and they really aren't. Those things are subjective and we won't find that out for ourselves unless you can make it past the douchebag test. How do you pass the test? Then you need to study. That means read and try to figure us out a little before you send your email. 3) DO NOT come across as challenging and indifferent to get us to resond. It's a bullying tactic to get us to "prove you wrong" that only weak minded women fall for. But then again, maybe that's what their hoping for. Whatever. Douchebags. 4) Don't send pictures of your junk unless we ask for it. If you think we're gonna be impressed with your 14inch dick, think again. The reality is that your face is what we see when we're panting and screaming your name so it's important that we are attracted to you physically. Your big dick is just a bonus. 5) Let the woman set the pace otherwise you seem like you're only looking out for yourself and who wants to be with a selfish lover? I know I don't. That doesn't mean you can't be agressive, but do so in a way that makes us feel desired and not like we're just another hole. Unfortunately, I've seen more spineless douchebags on this site then I've seen REAL men. However, when we do find those diamonds in the rough, they are usually rewarded nicely.  And Nekkid... Classy and Nekkid
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and since your an inch taller, its fine 
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