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Blogs > Linc1912 > Smartazz resides here

No expectations....really?  

Linc1912 47M
369 posts
11/15/2012 8:24 am

Last Read:
12/25/2012 10:34 pm
No expectations....really?
"No Expectations"



I see this alot on female's profiles. It shows that she has a level of optimism. Open-mindedness. It lets men know shes not high maintenance. GREAT traits to have.

BUT..

I dont think its realistic. I dont have that on my profile because I have expectations. Standards that keep me from messing with those Im not really into. In the old days, I would fuck someone's brains out just to fuck, and not really care if I was into them or not. And that made me kinda sad because I'd have to start over with another female....

I EXPECT:
The female that Im talking to be an ACTUAL female (not a cross dresser)
I EXPECT the photos of you to be actually YOU (not your friends)
I EXPECT you to be truthful in telling me what you like, and dont like
I EXPECT you to be yourself, and not some internet Facade of you.

I think it should be worded differently because unless your fucking EVERY guy that says hello to you- you DO have expectations; which is a good thing!

~Linc was here.~
smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
12/25/2012 9:02 am

 It's a valid point. Probably a better way to put it is that most people have a basic "floor" of things that they require before even agreeing to meet someone.

But, given that someone DOES meet their 'floor' of qualifications, from there on out they're open minded to whatever may happen.

I also think "no expectations" is a way of saying that the chance is so slim of finding someone who you find attractive/compatible and they feel the same way back; that it's better not to approach the situation expecting that.


sexysixties2 106F
Ask me for a photo
39750 posts
12/3/2012 2:37 pm

 I completely agree....I do have expectations and am extremely picky with the men I choose.
"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


ricancouple21 55M/57F
684 posts
11/15/2012 9:26 am

 I agree. Your perspective makes perfect sense to me.

I often think that profiles are worded a certain way as to not come across as negative or turn off too many members from even making the slightest contact. I can understand that.
Please forgive my wandering mind, I lost her leash


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