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Blogs > demonicsexkitten > Life, or something like it

Bitchy Me  

demonicsexkitten 48F
5182 posts
8/8/2015 11:07 pm

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8/13/2015 10:11 pm
Bitchy Me

My "nice" is wearing thin.

Funny thing: I love all you here on this site... flirting, laid back, respectful (and easy to avoid if not) but....

Face Place.

A long-time internet friend of my former roommate (and my pseudo friend as well because I accepted him as a friend on the site years ago) has decided he's getting out of a loveless, sexless marriage and is interested in me. And has been playing 20 questions. Only it's more like 20,000. I've answered because... because.

Boredom + politeness and now he thinks he has a chance at winning me and I really could care less. And the 20 questions format has rather pissed me off.

I don't have the energy. There is either a mental connection or there isn't. If you have to drag out questions... obviously there's not a connection. Or am I being too judgemental?

I love the connections where you just "click" even not knowing why... you can talk of anything and the positive energy just flows and feeds in an upward spiraling cycle. Common language helps... but I've had two friends without a common language that clicked like that. If there's a romantic interest it just heightens the spiral.

nightsoul1962 61F
17828 posts
8/8/2015 11:39 pm

 I agree with lordjack1957 !
20 questions???? I guess he thinks it's a game, and he's the grand prize if you answer them all right..........
Please girl, you know better.....move on!!!!
WITHOUT PASSION LIFE IS NOTHING


demonicsexkitten replies on 8/9/2015 8:23 am:
LOL

It really comes down to listening to that "deep inner voice". Nice me feels bad judging a person based on gut feeling when they have been nothing but good. I really need to stop doing that.

One of my Mexican neighbors told me once "It's not like with Americans... we're Mexicans. If you want to be his girlfriend: Say yes. It's great! If not? Say no. It's great! His feelings won't be hurt and he will still talk to you tomorrow." Wish all guys were like that lol.

In a totally unrelated situation, my aunt once said "We're adults. Our feelings won't be hurt. And if they are: we're adults. We can handle it."

Can't handle it = not adult = non-disputable proof to run away.

Nuke_N_Naughty 52M/54F

8/9/2015 6:19 pm

 Listen to your heart, it won't steer you wrong!
Dennis (Idahonuke)
To read about myongoing adventures and journey into the lifestyle:
[blog Idahonuke]


demonicsexkitten replies on 8/9/2015 8:53 pm:
Trying

Han54boat 71M
11637 posts
8/12/2015 8:02 am

 I know what you mean, click! I go out on dates hope for the same thing. Nice woman, nice body, and nice personality but where is the click? Then, my feelings becomes twisted about it all.

Cum to my blog and respond. Have a great kissing fun time.


demonicsexkitten replies on 8/12/2015 8:43 am:
Yeah
Kinda makes a person feel guilty for wanting to say "no" when there's absolutely nothing "wrong" with them. At least that's me.

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