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My Auto Reply Auto-reply message: Hello! This is an auto-reply message. I'm not into FWB, NSA or otherwise casual sex. I'm here for blogging, mild flirting, and keeping up with friends. Totally platonic friends welcome. Flirting is acceptable. If my present boundaries are acceptable: let me know. I will reply back. Now: A local guy has been messaging me lately (kinda). Odd, less than full sentence comments. Me, as ever, being stupid and probably bored at the time and polite... or any one or two of those in various mixes... replied back. Eh... because I'm bored now (and feeling slightly sickly and not sure what I want to do about it yet)... I'll post the extent of our conversations: February 28: Him "Sexy" Me: (Auto Reply) May 29 (long after my profile said "I'm no longer looking"): Him: "LOL" Me (auto reply) Me: ??? That's random. Him: U screen messages Me: Typically it saves time for both parties. Anyhow, glad I gave you something to laugh about at least. Him: U in for the night? Me: *crickets chirping* (I never replied) (I updated my profile again a few weeks ago) June 20: Him: U found a man Me: (auto reply) Me: Whether I found a man or not makes no difference. My auto reply message still applies regardless. But yes, I'm in a relationship now. Him: "Smart and rude, what a way to be." and later "LOL" My auto reply is the exact same one I've used for years. Barring the short period of time I plagiarized Eros_Space's auto reply (with permission) - but mine "fit" me better, despite how perfect and polite his is  Random guy above said today that he never realized I was off the market and that he'll stop bothering me. If I *was* on the market: those few non-sentences wouldn't in any way inspire a woman to be available. No attempt at connection or catching a person's curiosity or making one want to know more or even, for that matter, any sort of conversational jumping off place. I believe my profile and auto reply indicated I was "off the market" all along. Or is "Platonic" one of those words, like "eclectic," that a lot of adult and even college educated people do not know the meaning of? I have been sadly surprised at the words I've had to define and spell for people over the years. And the jokes that have lost all humor by having to explain basic (to me) English to native English speakers. Trust me: there are a TON of words I don't know, and I will forever be slightly afraid of pronouncing certain words. Specifically: oregano and aspartame. I pronounce them in my head a few times first "just to make sure" because the first time I attempted them I went with Spanish pronunciation and made everybody around me laugh (after making me repeat a few times then spell it out so they knew what I was trying to say). One danger of learning bits of multiple languages. I never quite know if a new word will come out sounding Spanish, Arabic, English, or some odd conglomeration. Hah. Anyhow... one tries to be clear in written communication. As to the redundancy of the site's "Auto-Reply message" followed immediately by my "Hello. This is an auto-reply message"... I found it was needed. Without my repeating it I discovered years ago that men tend to skip over the site's words and think I wrote the message specifically for them then get all pissy that I went to the trouble of writing that out and not having a regular conversation. Including it twice seems to get noticed. |
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6/22/2015 6:33 pm |
Why do I get the feeling that your boundaries are NOT going to respected by more singles guys there than it will be? I just don't get it!! Here's hoping that people will get the point and will respect you and your new relationship, which is just wonderful, by the way. Dennis (Idahonuke) To read about myongoing adventures and journey into the lifestyle: [blog Idahonuke]
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maybe you should try brail... he might have done things that made him go blind... my mom used to always say things like that... what else could it be? To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!! 
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maybe you should try brail... he might have done things that made him go blind... my mom used to always say things like that... what else could it be? 
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Damned if I know where I saw the cartoon, but basically it was a man and a woman at a cocktail party. The man is saying to the woman "I'm a celibate: I only fuck other celibates." Not sure this quite applies here, other than that "celibate" may be one of those words like "Platonic" which people just don't get. May single men continue to be a sources of amusement and not annoyance... Stop in, read, and offer comments at my "swinging as seen in the media" blog, "Confessions of a Lifestyle Man" humorlife, which is also the home of the monthly virtual symposium. New post: The Virtual Symposium Returns Lets Pick A Topic
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Some guys think that they need to be pushy about it. And some just don't get the hint. That is how it is around here.  Cum to my blog and respond.  Have a great kissing fun time. 
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