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Warning: Optimistic (Slightly Hopeless Romantic) Musings  

demonicsexkitten 48F
5182 posts
4/14/2015 11:27 pm

Last Read:
4/17/2015 4:39 pm

Warning: Optimistic (Slightly Hopeless Romantic) Musings

Last night I received one of the semi-polite but still kinda rude emails:

His first contact:
"This is a sex site go on match if you want a deep relationship lady"


(Why do I keep hearing "Lady" in the voice of one of the firedancer creatures on Labyrinth? "Hey, lady! You can't throw his head, you can only throw your own head!" - seriously the "voice" I hear every time I read it keeps me laughing about it)

My response:
I've had deep relationships from this site, and know people who've met, fallen in love and married. Just because your world is narrow doesn't mean there aren't vast possibilities for those who are open for them.

Best of luck to you.


Besides the wonderful blogging community - I have met MANY wonderful people on this site and made deep and lasting relationships. (Plus, I joined when this site was labeled "Adult Social Network and Sex Dating" -- we are all adults here, some more than others, socially networking). Many of the bloggers have made deep and lasting relationships. I know. I read.

Why do people limit themselves? Or, worse, insist that others must do so or leave?

I know!! I know... I'm guilty of limiting myself too, in so many ways.

Feelings of religious guilt holding me back, or "you're a lady, ladies don't" upbringing holding me back, fear of hurting those I love holding me back, fear of the unknown, or risk, or fear of being hurt... all of these get in the way and trip me up every now and then.

But ... I believe in Love. In Magic. In Dreams.

I believe in flowers growing in deserts and in the cracks on rocky cliffs.

In Possibilities.

You never know where in life you will meet a friend, a mentor, or a lover. Or just a passing stranger that somehow touches you, opens your mind, and helps you grow. Not that I opened anybody's mind lol. Just... really.







*Sending Love and Happy Wishes and Glowing Contentment your way* (even if it lasts just for a moment... I hope you feel it)

easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
4/15/2015 7:32 pm

the chances we create always seem to ring more true!!!

KATIE MELUA - "If You Were A Sailboat"

If you're a cowboy I would trail you,
If you're a piece of wood I'd nail you to the floor.
If you're a sailboat I would sail you to the shore.
If you're a river I would swim you,
If you're a house I would live in you all my days.
If you're a preacher I'd begin to change my ways.

Sometimes I believe in fate,
But the chances we create,
Always seem to ring more true.
You took a chance on loving me,
I took a chance on loving you.

If I was in jail I know you'd spring me
If I was a telephone you'd ring me all day long
If was in pain I know you'd sing me soothing songs.

Sometimes I believe in fate,
But the chances we create,
Always seem to ring more true.
You took a chance on loving me,
I took a chance on loving you.

If I was hungry you would feed me
If I was in darkness you would lead me to the light
If I was a book I know you'd read me every night

If you're a cowboy I would trail you,
If you're a piece of wood I'd nail you to the floor.
If you're a sailboat I would sail you to the shore.
If you're a sailboat I would sail you to the shore

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Good luck!!!


demonicsexkitten replies on 4/15/2015 8:17 pm:
What a beautiful song!

I love the lyrics more than how she sings them... a couple lines I felt needed treated differently lol. Very romantic and beautiful. Thank you for sharing

demonicsexkitten replies on 4/15/2015 8:20 pm:
Oh!! I LOVE this song --> Katie Melua - The Flood

easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
4/15/2015 10:48 pm

I'm glad you liked it...

sometimes, I prefer to express myself with the right words in the form of song lyrics... and this song exemplified the feeling of opportunity for love... Not something set in stone as the initial part deals with fate and the rest deals with chance...

So, I thought you might like it...

I'll listen to 'The Flood'...

'Simply Falling' is a great song!!!

To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog:

Good luck!!!


demonicsexkitten replies on 4/16/2015 5:38 am:
Glad you liked it

kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
4/16/2015 12:36 am

Why were you polite to this idiot?

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demonicsexkitten replies on 4/16/2015 5:38 am:
Because that's how I am lol.

He didn't bother replying back, thankfully.

Actually I'm thinking he's probably one of those guys that will be posting a "Why are there only fakes on this site?" and "Waaah! Nobody will meet me, this site sucks" blog, then leave the site in a week or two.

Nuke_N_Naughty 52M/54F

4/16/2015 10:12 pm

Good for you for taking the moral high ground with this idiot who sent you such an insensitive and immature email. You could so easily have just ripped into him and told him just what douchebag he is, but you were polite and put him in his place by sharing your reality and not giving in to his negativity.

Let's hope you are right that this guy, and the rest of the ones like him on this site, will just go away.

Dennis (Idahonuke)
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[blog Idahonuke]


demonicsexkitten replies on 4/16/2015 11:41 pm:
I deleted his email so as to avoid the temptation of checking for just that very thing.

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