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Odd Then, Fantastic Now: My Contribution
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Odd Then, Fantastic Now: My Contribution “Odd Then, Fantastic Now: How attitudes toward specific aspects of sex change between youth and maturity” My contribution for the Sixth Virtual Symposium. Participants List For The Sixth Virtual Symposium Odd Then, Fantastic Now I believe my attitude towards specific acts of sex hasn't changed much between youth and maturity. As a youth: I believed in True Love, Happily Ever after, be a Lady, Wait until Marriage. My mom was a bit more of a realist and warned me about date [insert word for unwilling sex which this site bans] (that was her "first time"), pregnancy, and that hormones sometimes get out of control and she understands... but I was too embarrassed by all of that. What stuck with me was the idealized versions. I remained a virgin until I was 20, and only broke my "not until marriage" ideal because... visions, prophecy, and I truly loved him and believed we were going to be married... and "in my heart we are married... so what matter?" (he totally respected my "virgin till marriage" ideal. I'm the one that chose to break it, he tried to stop me the moment he realized what I was doing). I also believed, from mid-high school on, that if in a loving, committed relationship, built on trust and communication and LOVE, and respect... that so long as both parties are willing that there is nothing "wrong" with sex in any of it's forms. And I also believed "lady in public, in the bedroom" was a perfectly wonderful way to be. Though I did believe "Shaving the nether regions" was something only perverts and porn stars did. It was just WEIRD. As an adult? I still believe True Love, Happily Ever After is a possibility. I'm maybe not quite the lady I imagine myself to be, but I try. "wait until marriage" has long passed by, but Relationship still matters deeply. I still believe there is nothing wrong with love (sex) in all it's forms, provided love, trust, communication, mutual agreement and enjoyment, etc. I still believe "lady in public, in the bedroom" is a great idea. Really, the biggest change in me (other than having sex outside marriage) is that I now know that lots of perfectly normal people, even some very religious and conservative people, shave their nether regions. I'm no longer shocked by the idea LOL. Essentially, as one dear friend just stated, "I believe in making love, not 'sex'" and that has always been my belief, then, now, and always. I have contemplated "sex just for the sake of sex" but it's just not true to ME. At my core. And of all things: I need to be able to respect myself the next morning. I guess my take on this symposium? I'm oddly fantastic. Always have been, always will be hahahaha. Or maybe I'm just "Odd". Whatever. 
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LOL you are fantastic!  Thanks for sharing.
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I never thought med would shave their pubic hair until I joined this site! 
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Having not grown up religious, I never had those reservations and I'm glad. Pubic hair.........it's just a preference. I don't tie anything else to it. However, I don't have sex unless there's some connection. It would seem like a waste of my time/energy. It would have to be someone perfect in my eyes like Sasha Gray, a physical ideal, for me to think about sex without intimacy.  "My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur
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Sounds as though you've gotten more comfortable with yourself as the years have gone on... which is definitely fantastic, and hopefully not odd! And yes, this site can be eye opening... although I wouldn't take what you see/experience/read about on it as a legitimate cross-section of society... Well said! Stop in, read, and offer comments at my "swinging as seen in the media" blog, "Confessions of a Lifestyle Man" humorlife, which is also the home of the monthly virtual symposium. New post: The Virtual Symposium Returns Lets Pick A Topic
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Kitten, what is both odd and fantastic to me is that in spite of that "39F" following your ID in your profile I always think of you as "19". An adorable "19". Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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I love your attitude towards yourself! I find that in a relationship, I love to have sex, and then there are times I want to make love. Both are fantastic for me. But then again, it is in a relationship. So I guess I am like you. Odd. Ha ahhahahahha Kitkat The observant make the best lovers, I may not do right, but I do write, I have bliss, joy, and happiness in my life, Kitkat Come check out my blog KItkat1415 check out this post by me Adventures In Body Grooming #39 April Topic Link: What Lies Beneath If April Showers Oh Bloody Hell What Kind Of Weather Turns Me On Bloggers Symposium 40
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If odd means beautiful, unique, complimentary to the world, then you are! Great post! "To Be Consumed" Blog : I want to be your drug of painful withdrawals.
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Fantastic Post Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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