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Holy Sh*t!! I'm going to be a grandma
Holy Sh*t!! I'm going to be a grandma Well... I know people my age that have 2 or 3 grandkids already (or at least in college or graduating high school... the women I know with 2 or 3 grandkids are a few years older than I am) And of course my "" isn't my flesh and blood . She's only 5 weeks along and wants to wait until 8 weeks to tell anybody other than myself and her dad (she's even making her mom wait). It's a secret but since nobody here knows her (and few know me in real life) it's safe here. Wow. Envy. Hurt. Such Love and Joy for her. Excited. Truly happy too. I also feel like crying. Totally stupid. Though a couple friends totally understand the feeling, and really my "" does too. I mean... she's known me since she was 4 years old, and when she was 6 she offered to babysit for me if her dad and I got married and had babies. I guess I'm having a "wild Friday night" after all... though wild emotional roller coaster wasn't quite what I had in mind. Wish I had warm, strong arms to hold me while I feel sorry for myself. Though... tomorrow one of my best friends is going to feed me cookies and make me watch movies LOL. Which reminds me... I should NOT skip eating just because I'm emotional. For those of you wishing to see my doumbeks: I will get the pics tomorrow. I was about to go take the photos when the baby news hit. We spent a long time talking after that, and now it's too dark to get the photos I wanted. |
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Don't be too envious. My folks had ME for a son. I caused their white hairs. Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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I feel sorry for people my age who already have kids old enough to have kids. Says something about our society. I don't even date people with kids, so of course I look down on kids who are having kids...... Wasting your life before it's even begun is not a smart choice. "My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur
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I believe that grandkids are the most precious beings I the world... (except that I do have a passion for women... be that as it may)... If your daughter (real or earned) let you in on the news, it should be a joyous occasion. I fought the notion of being a grandparent, because I've always fought the next stage of my life: 1) being weaned off a breast-feeding (I'm still sore about that); 2) going thru puberty; 3) dating women; 4) marrying; 5) having children; 6) divorcing (not really a next stage, but, it happens); 7) grand kids... etc... whatever lies ahead... if it doesn't kill me, it will make me last a little longer!!! just sayin'... If you have this closeness with your daughter then, you have the opportunity to share in the happiness and joy of seeing your grandchild grow up... you'll make choices instead of things you have to do... and, the reward will be there, everyday!!!! so, congrats to you!!! To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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3/20/2015 10:21 pm |
WOW! That is quite a huge thing to hit you at this point in your life, but I imagine you will handle it with the same grace and panache that you handle just about everything once you get over the initial shock of it. I have to admit that I am getting to the age now where the thought of having grandchildren in not quite as odd as it has been, but I am hopefully still a few years away from that. I will also admit that while most of me is dreading the thought of being old enough to be a grandfather, there is a small part of me that is very much looking forward to it. Dennis (Idahonuke) To read about myongoing adventures and journey into the lifestyle: [blog Idahonuke]
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I don't know about you but I was never taught or shown that it was ok and, dare I say, normal to have mixed emotions about "joyous" events. I hope you continue to feel every single emotion you have and not beat yourself up for the ones that you deem inappropriate. That's living a full, rich life...big hugs! Always tell the truth Use kind words Keep your promises Giggle and laugh Be positive Love one another Always be grateful Forgiveness is mandatory Try new things Say please and thank you Say your prayers Smile ~Author unknown
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To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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My grandkids are really neat, but ther folks moved from The Cities an hour away to Vashon Island off Seattle.
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