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Do You Have a God Complex?  

demonicsexkitten 48F
5182 posts
3/14/2015 4:55 pm

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3/20/2015 4:45 pm
Do You Have a God Complex?

Somebody was complaining to me that most women on this site have a "God Complex"

Apparently they are narrow minded, judgmental.... Honestly I'm not sure what else qualifies as a "God Complex". Judgmental seems to be the criteria of the moment. And "Holier than Thou".

I know none of *MY* friends are like that... but then most of my friends are bloggers and we all know bloggers are freaking amazing

Myself? I have a Goddess Complex. It's nowhere near the same thing hahaha.

For that matter: My version of "the Goddess Complex" is not the same as the internet version per Google.

In my life I have been called "sex goddess" and " of venus" and "Lady Godiva" -- later narrowed down to "Really I just want to see you riding naked on a ". And quite a few occasions well-meaning friends have pointed out that I'm not Superwoman, that I do have human limitations same as the rest of mankind.

So, really... it's just fun to giggle about.

Also, I'm curious... has anybody else had the occurance where somebody from years ago contacts you after ONE chat... remembers you, everything you chatted about, etc... and you're totally clueless? I had that happen once on a different chat program and after I felt bad for not remembering he admitted he reread everything from our ONE chat 5 years prior before messaging me again.

Well... it just happened on this site too. We chatted once, at LEAST a year ago. He remembers me, our chat, and the reason I was not able to meet him. I was going camping up North with friends... and would be sleeping in my car (totally something I'd do - I've done it dozens of times). That makes it at LEAST last summer, most likely two summers ago. I'm a little stunned.

On the other hand this happens to me all the time. People at work "Hey, S! How are you" and I'm all "How do you know my name? Have we ever even met? You don't look familiar" lol... Unless I see and talk *AND* actually say their name... chances are I won't remember. I'm terrible like that. (there are over 500 people working for the company I'm with... so it's not like an office of 4 -- though that would be rather funny. "Stapler Guy" in Office Space)

s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
3/14/2015 5:45 pm

 Aren't those subdivisions in heaven?
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demonicsexkitten replies on 3/14/2015 5:54 pm:
LOL that's funny

God Complex for the Business Set.

Goddess Complex for the hippies.

Yep... I'm right at home. hahahaha.

kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
3/14/2015 6:48 pm

 You ARE a goddess, Kitten. It isn't a complex. And "self absorbed"? What kind of condescending horseshit is that? You're very kind and very sweet. I'm delighted to have you as a friend.
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demonicsexkitten replies on 3/14/2015 9:08 pm:
Thanks, kzoopair

One friend kindly pointed out "who ISN"T self absorbed?" at least to a point. Almost have to be to survive.

VerandahPoly 80M  
526 posts
3/15/2015 11:50 am

 You naked riding a horse? That would be very interesting. You naked riding me? A far more interesting thought.


demonicsexkitten replies on 3/19/2015 5:35 pm:
Hahaha... giddyup

VerandahPoly 80M  
526 posts
3/15/2015 11:55 am
    Quoting AmeliaCox:
    It's not a god/goddess complex to judge whether someone is suitable to meet... It's commonsense! Never let miserable critics of your entitlement to be choosy, label you according to their own insecure standards (I know you never would, you're awesome like that). They're usually the shitheads who have bought (wholesale) the site's degrading and false advertising and feel cheated whenever they contact a woman on here and she doesn't catapault herself straight onto his throbbing questionableness... lol
demonicsexkitten replies on 3/15/2015 10:26 am:
"His throbbing questionables" ahahahahha! You never read THAT in romance novels lol...

I hope I remember that. It's priceless. And so fitting much of the time.

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Mel, you're a hoot!


humorlife 56M  
5710 posts
3/15/2015 8:40 pm

 I am absolutely recommending that "half naked on a horse" be the subject of an upcoming HNW, just to see your entry...

God complex is an odd appellation to stick on anyone here. It usually refers to people in power... and there isn't much room for that sort of power exchange in online chat. And, hopefully, in one-to-one meetings the dynamic is at least somewhat equal...

Memorable? Now that's another story!
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demonicsexkitten replies on 3/19/2015 5:36 pm:
LOL If nobody else goes for it (maybe "Half Naked" not necessarily on a horse to be of more broad-appeal) then maybe I will just have to write something anyhow

TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
3/16/2015 4:35 am

 Or you could try the "copy guy" school of learning your coworker's names.....

Kitten! The Kittenski! Kitten-witten! Kittenmeister! The Kittster! Kit-man!


demonicsexkitten replies on 3/19/2015 5:37 pm:
Sorry for taking so long to reply. Though this has given me days of giggles Not that I have tried it, or ever in a million years would be brave enough to do so hahahaha... I'd burst out laughing before ever getting the first word out then they will all just think me insane.

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