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Blogs > demonicsexkitten > Life, or something like it

Am I dominant or submissive?  

demonicsexkitten 49F
5182 posts
1/26/2015 8:48 pm

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1/31/2015 9:55 pm
Am I dominant or submissive?

Dominant or Submissive.

Switch or Mirror.

I am gentle to the gentle.
Fight to the death one that tries to control me.

Yet sometimes... I give orders and expect them followed.
Others I'm more than happy to do as I'm told... provided I'm "told" in the right way.

Actually the "telling" is best done ... I really don't know how to describe it. Just I do NOT "obey"... I'm neither a nor a . "Told", written, feels too much like "obey" which I already know from going rounds with somebody long years ago does NOT go over well.

"Obey me! I am the man of the house" <--- hahahahahaha. Yeah. Didn't work when I was a either, but then we ALL knew that mom was the one to fear.

Trust. Respect. It opens the doors for following suggestion without feeling imposed upon. And then, on rare occasion a stronger request must be made... it doesn't require fighting for ... what? autonomy? freedom? respect?

Balance is a marvelous thing. Like cruising down a road in a smooth car... a twitch here, a nudge there... no huge extremes, just coast along, relaxed, paying attention, enjoying the view, using senses to monitor and adjust.

I can be both gentle and aggressive.

I hate being "Stuck" in a role.

Don't tell me what to do. (I think this is the ultimate "Taurus" trait haha)

OK... I wasn't even planning on blogging today. Just feeling a bit feisty I guess.

Hmmm... and frisky, now that I'm thinking about it... dang it.

Happy Monday everyone!

kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
1/26/2015 8:56 pm

 Damned interesting post though, for a woman who hadn't planned on blogging today. Nice one, Kitten! Very provocative.
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demonicsexkitten replies on 1/26/2015 10:20 pm:
That's what I get for looking at other blogs and polls lol.

Nuke_N_Naughty 52M/54F

1/26/2015 9:09 pm

 Why can't you be both? There is a time and a place for both and in the bedroom both of them can be very fulfilling and very satisfying as well, assuming you are with someone that you trust implicitly.

However, overall, I most certainly do believe in equality and balance. I want my partner to be just that...my partner and my equal.
Dennis (Idahonuke)
To read about myongoing adventures and journey into the lifestyle:
[blog Idahonuke]


demonicsexkitten replies on 1/26/2015 10:20 pm:
I love being both, and switching things around as mood dictates. But some people are all one or the other.

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