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The ex is still sexy  

demonicsexkitten 48F
5182 posts
11/22/2009 2:08 am

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The ex is still sexy


Wow... how weird is that?

I stopped to visit my "pretend adopted "... her dad and I broke up when she was 7. She's 18 now... He's 51. We were just sitting there talking, and he walked in... and it hit me. Actually two things... one: his hair was cut too short (the moment he left the room I fell over laughing) and two: I'm still attracted to him.

As for his hair: when he came back in, I told him it was too short. (Apparently his 's been telling him the same thing daily).

The ideal length for a man's hair... is however long or short he wants it to be, provided it's long enough to cover my fingers when I bury my hands into it LOL.

As for finding him still sexy... Dang!! And just last night I was explaining to somebody that my libido has been sleeping for months. (I feel it's more of a "healing hibernation"... my heart and libido both). Five minutes of him in the room, and I was ... well, "drenched" to put it crudely.

As I was leaving, he tried starting a conversation. We usually have no problem talking, but I was just intent on getting out the door. Running seemed a safe bet to me... I doubt he'd have appreciated me saying "Your is in her bedroom, your fiance in the computer room, but I want to drag you into the bedroom and rip off your clothes".


The ex is still sexy... and it's just not fair!

***

In other news... strange and unusual... I was at an event this evening and a woman (I don't know her name, but I should, as I've seen her around for years and we know the same people) for some reason kept hanging around me, touching my shoulder, rubbing my back... she even leaned down and kissed the top of my head once. Then later she put her arm around my shoulder (so I gave her a hug)... and she again kissed my forehead. It didn't feel threatening at all... I'm certain she's not into women. But... how odd! I would say it felt "caring" maybe even "loving"... but I would only expect that from my Mom or perhaps a best friend or loving older sister.. eh... oddities of life I guess.

AlvinBooth 70M
5468 posts
11/22/2009 4:19 am

That's the kind of reaction I'd get too. Only it wouldn't be to prevent you from giving in to your sexual temptation. It would be because the ST marathon was over.

AB

No Bozos


demonicsexkitten 48F
10694 posts
11/22/2009 11:17 am

omai: I'd say it's generalization... some get sexier as they age. Not all. Though I do seem to have a thing for older guys.

AB: LOL I would NOT just hurry and run out the door after our Star Trek marathon Honest. I'd make you cook me dinner too.


KMA5 47M
771 posts
11/23/2009 6:57 pm

strangely reminiscent of your dream in the last post. Maybe I should move closer for a front row seat *nuzzzle**


demonicsexkitten 48F
10694 posts
11/23/2009 7:52 pm

*Purrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr*

KMA5... I don't care about "front row seat" but you can nuzzle all you want


rm_akcabbie07 60M
10 posts
12/2/2009 10:09 pm

Had my ex staying with me while she was looking for her new place are and her boyfriend supposedly broke up...because he was cheating on her...was hard not to say I knew how it felt, remembering how our relationship ended after she cheated on me. Strange though, not really any attraction at all,,,and she still looks good for 40. Guess we were really meant to stay ex's....lol...and I was more than happy to see her get to the new house. Much better for our daughter that we are able to maintain a friendship rather than take a chance on rekindling old feelings. That and I am really hard to live with according to her...she took almost 5 weeks to get her own place....gotta run. My kiddo just go t home


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