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Polyandry
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Polyandry Would you ever be part of a male harem? If you were part of such an arrangement, and your shared wife became pregnant: would you be happy? Do you think all 3 "husbands" would be happy and share in it? Or would it destroy the relationship? I had a discussion last night with a muslim friend, about why he thinks muslim men are allowed up to 4 wives but women are not allowed up to 4 husbands. His #1 reasoning is that if there were more than 1 husband and the wife became pregnant, who would know which was the father? Plus, men would never be able to share. And the men who are not the actual "father" would not be able to care for the as their own. I just want opinions... please  My opinion? If 3 men enter into a polyandrous relationship with one woman... then they go into the relationship with open eyes, accepting of it and all it entails... and if they truly love her, then they will all love her . But that's my opinion. Despite my religious leanings... part of me is still too tempted to have 3 husbands. Each would get 2 nights a week (naturally they would be so worn out, that it would take them the other days to get frisky again)... and one day a week for myself. And all 3 would have more sex than most do on average. I think it's a good arrangement
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Loving someone like they were your child and loving your child are 2 different things, even if it doesn't seem like much of a difference. They may go through the motions for you and your child but the other 2 hubbies also have a myriad of questions: if this pregnancy gets dangerous this may affect my Tips from having a baby for me, a child can bond with select few adults and there is a huge chance that the bilogical offspring doesn't choose dad at all. Having multi dads might have been good for Staci Keanan but as far as I can tell the one who benefits most from this is mom. She gets the love and THE kid. Thats a big test for anyone
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Men don't play well with others. We're too immature to accept a child as a child. It has to be a possession. Sad but true. [blog talldarkavg1]
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TDK: I guess scratch my post on your blog lol. MzHuny: *hugs*HonestJohn: In that case, you'd be about enough on your own. Goldmember: I've actually had a few (Eastern men) tell me they wouldn't mind if their wife had a 2nd husband, "except it's against our religion so she can't". Though true most could never consider it... for it to be "acceptable" one would need to be raised with it as part of culture, I think. wickedelements: Thanks for your input It really gave me a lot to think about. Honestly, I probably wouldn't be able to have multiple husbands anyways. My problem is that I'm too "fair"... and because I do not share what is mine, I would feel guilty expecting them to share me. KMA5:  Good points, love. playtime: I think half of the reason the idea keeps floating around in my mind is because I seem to have 2 states in my life: I'm either 1000% single with not a single male in sight... or I have too many great guys vying for my attention. TDK: Maybe that's what my former step-mom felt: a child is a possession. I never could understand how she could be so cruel to me, and even now I pity her. She had the opportunity to be the greatest person in my life, but she turned her back on it. I still don't understand it, but then again to me a child is a child. They all need love, caring, guidance to be the best they can be.
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Hmm.. 3 husbands?? What happens when the monotony kicks in and now you have three men in mustard stained sweatshirts sitting on the couch watch football and UFC matches all day long?
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