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Sports Widows...  

izzie1 52M
413 posts
4/28/2012 5:20 am

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9/14/2014 12:00 pm

Sports Widows...


It's nothing personal... actually it is personal, and I am completely confused and annoyed by it.

I like sports too...but I would never turn down an opportunity to be with a woman to watch a game. That...is ridiculous.
I don't watch TV in the bedroom...
I don't check scores on my phone...
I don't talk to all my friends non stop about any sports...
None of my clothes have a giant P on them...
It's just not a priority for me.
Sure...I have a few beers at the bar and watch a game...but my hand is on your knee...just under the hem of your dress at the same time.
If you don't want to be in the bar...give me a better option...make me an offer I can't refuse.
Say what you want but don't whine.
Sure I work alot...but I always find time to send you that sexy little text that tells you I am thinking about what I want to do to you when I see you.
Sure...I go out and have some drinks...but when you walk in the room and whisper in my ear...then...it's time to go.
I see it everywhere...men neglecting their women...and the women sitting there with a big sour face.
Choose happiness.
Choose wisely.
They are not going to change.
You are not going to change them.
If they are broke now...they are never going to be "not broke". They don't have it in them.
If they spend their last $100 on a tattoo and not a new suit for an interview...they never will.
If they smoke a pack of cigarettes a day...and then complain they have no money to take you out to a movie...they never will.
If they are not in college or in a career leading towards a position of increasing responsibility...he will always follow the pack.
If their rims and stereo are worth more than the entire car....they have no common sense.
If they have a with a woman they were not married to...it'll happen to you too.
If he doesn't make you cum before he does....he's selfish.
If he doesn't ask you what you need in the bedroom....he doesn't know.
If he can't get it done...it will never get better.
If he doesn't make you feel that thing you feel when you kiss someone new... for the first time...it's never coming back.
If you don't crave him...it's over.
Choose a man.
It doesn't have to be me...but choose someone that knows what he's talking about.
Wake up...
It's time...
Enjoy your life.
Cut bait and fish somewhere else.
I'd love to hear what you have to say...

Do me a favor...go look at one of my other posts and make a comment... please...


AudioFilly 58F  
1897 posts
4/29/2012 9:49 am

Early in our relationship I attempted to give my husband a blowjob while he was watching football. I thought I was offering up such a gift. Two of his favorite things at the same time. He just complained that I was distracting him from the game.


izzie1 replies on 4/29/2012 10:04 am:
Ugghhh...that kills me...
Never happening around this way...
I don't get it ...
Come visit...open invitations for all Sports Widows...

needaguy2012 63M
686 posts
4/28/2012 12:13 pm

this is quite scary!!!! I had no idea that things had gotten so bad. Is this what it comes down to?

All you girls want is a guy with a little bit of money that does not smoke. Damn, sometimes I think if i was single, i would really be popular.

You did not consider how women treat us nice respectful guys.. It does seem that they prefer the smokers with 20s on the car.. or something like that,

all is fair in love and war!!


izzie1 replies on 4/28/2012 1:43 pm:
I didn't understand your comment at all...

39lawless 58F
6864 posts
4/28/2012 9:15 am

Oh....I almost forgot! It was a very happy morning to see not just one, but two postings by you!!! I fall in love with you a little bit more with every blog post!

Always tell the truth
Use kind words
Keep your promises
Giggle and laugh
Be positive
Love one another
Always be grateful
Forgiveness is mandatory
Try new things
Say please and thank you
Say your prayers
Smile

~Author unknown


izzie1 replies on 4/28/2012 9:31 am:
What time is that flight to Denver again?
It's kind of a high that you read and love my blog...
Thank you...figure out South Jersey or Philly and you can get the local tour...it has some secret points of interest...surprisingly

39lawless 58F
6864 posts
4/28/2012 9:13 am

I so used to fall for a guy's potential...or his words. That is the path to heartache. And yes, people do change but lasting change takes a whole lot of work and time. Self-awareness rarely comes overnight. And reversing patterns that have been there for decades is not an easy process.

I know. I've done it and continue to. I work incredibly hard to look at my shit and to grow as a person. I appreciate those who do the same. And for those who don't and aren't? God bless 'em and I'll pass.

Well, except maybe for a FB....hehehe

Always tell the truth
Use kind words
Keep your promises
Giggle and laugh
Be positive
Love one another
Always be grateful
Forgiveness is mandatory
Try new things
Say please and thank you
Say your prayers
Smile

~Author unknown


buxombbw4u 56F
16144 posts
4/28/2012 8:35 am

I have a jersey with a big P on it. Do you still like me or do I have to burn it now?

I find much of what you write is pretty accurate, although I do agree with sexsenses - someone can change, if they truly want to. The difficulty lies in figuring out how MUCH they want to change. And realizing that it isn't you that can change them - they have to decide to do it on their own.

2022... it HAS be better, right?!


izzie1 replies on 4/28/2012 9:23 am:
Meh...you can your sweatshirt...I'm not opposed to being a fan...but passing on time with your woman to watch a game or ignoring her to watch the game...I just don't get it...
Like I said, people can change but once you know he's a putz...why stay?
Worse is that the next guy suffers a little too or doesn't get the shot because she's so jaded. It shouldn't be a battle. A dance, a little gaming,some strategy...a chase for sure but fighting somone elses war because they were worked over and frustrated by the last 5 guys...I don't have those kinds of patience.
Believe it or not...when I say it...I mean it...and it's always true

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