Hookup, Find Sex or Meet Someone Hot Now
Reset Password
Reset Link Sent
Hookup, Find Sex or Meet Someone Hot Now
| Blogs > stars_light4U > Fun and Sexy |
Now to the Details...
|
Now to the Details... So.. when you were counting up how many people you've been with... Did you count the "coffee dates"...the "went for a walks"... Did you count the time you spent on the phone with people before deciding to meet or not to meet? Were you disappointed when all the time spent talking, chatting, texting amounted to "not meeting???" How much time do you invest in trying to meet someone...??? These are the crucial questions that inquiring minds want to know the answers to!!      Looking forward to a good year ahead!! Stars_light4U |
|||
|
I invest as little time as possible online chatting, messaging or even speaking by phone. WHY? Well, It's been my experience that virtual interaction bears very little resemblance to the real thing. You could go on for weeks, IM'ing someone and still meet a complete stranger. There are no steps, questions or topics that can predict how well two people get along in person. So why draw it out? Most women I know who have experience with online dating also agree. Often they'll say, "Let's meet for a drink." Of course, they give your profile a good once over and there needs to be a reasonable story to go along with current pics. But they also realize the online "getting to know you" step is a waste of time. $0.02
| ||
|
If you count everyone on line here when I log in, the number must be in the thousands!  If you just count who I've communicated with (blogs, comments etc...)it would be in the hundreds If you count how many actually sent me a message I'm down to 10s If it's actual face to face- well I'm still hoping  I like those coffee mugs 
| ||
|
OK, if “inquiring” minds really want to know.  I don’t count up how many people I’ve been with be it "coffee dates" or full on committed relationships.I don’t count the time spent on the phone with people before deciding to meet or not. My experience with this site so far is that decision is made on the first call – by both of us. I think it is the meeting(s) themselves that count. I had one woman who seemed pretty cool then all of the sudden stop responding after about 3 emails. It was just some pleasant getting to know you kind of talk. And, I did not write anything nasty or out of line. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
| ||
|
Only counted actual women I had been with, so no cheating to bump up the numbers. Zero time invested at all these days in trying to meet women
| ||
|
sometimes it's like that... but entertainment is good... Looking forward to a good year ahead!! Stars_light4U
| ||
|
I invest as little time as possible online chatting, messaging or even speaking by phone. WHY? Well, It's been my experience that virtual interaction bears very little resemblance to the real thing. You could go on for weeks, IM'ing someone and still meet a complete stranger. There are no steps, questions or topics that can predict how well two people get along in person. So why draw it out? Most women I know who have experience with online dating also agree. Often they'll say, "Let's meet for a drink." Of course, they give your profile a good once over and there needs to be a reasonable story to go along with current pics. But they also realize the online "getting to know you" step is a waste of time. $0.02 I agree... chatting alot before can lead nowhere.. but on the other hand.. it's kinda fun... Looking forward to a good year ahead!! Stars_light4U
| ||
|
If you count everyone on line here when I log in, the number must be in the thousands! If you just count who I've communicated with (blogs, comments etc...)it would be in the hundreds If you count how many actually sent me a message I'm down to 10s If it's actual face to face- well I'm still hoping I like those coffee mugs Meeting for coffee is nice too... Looking forward to a good year ahead!! Stars_light4U
| ||
|
Great question! The count..I remember a guy asking me how many men Ive been with? Really..I wouldn't ask him. Its funny, I shared with a male friend I met here,and asked him the same question, why does it matter? And..men love to be with a woman that has experience,how do you think she got it?..lol...its so silly, its a sex site,and once you learn how to play the game,and not meaning playing games with peoples heads, thats just mean, but learn how the game is played. It took me awhile to learn,and I fell many times, got myself back up, dusted me off, and back on the hunt..lol..The online dating thing can really sting, or this online fwb thing, who knows what this site really is, but you need not to take it so serious. Just like the real world, good people and evil people, with hidden agenda's. Im staying positive,and hopeful that,there is a man out there who says what he means,and means what he says...is that so difficult here? I say don't count men,or need to answer the question, just smile! Plus.. what difference does it really make...? Looking forward to a good year ahead!! Stars_light4U
| ||
|
OK, if “inquiring” minds really want to know. I don’t count up how many people I’ve been with be it "coffee dates" or full on committed relationships.I don’t count the time spent on the phone with people before deciding to meet or not. My experience with this site so far is that decision is made on the first call – by both of us. I think it is the meeting(s) themselves that count. I had one woman who seemed pretty cool then all of the sudden stop responding after about 3 emails. It was just some pleasant getting to know you kind of talk. And, I did not write anything nasty or out of line. Being less intense about things makes everything more fun, I think... Looking forward to a good year ahead!! Stars_light4U
| ||
|
Only counted actual women I had been with, so no cheating to bump up the numbers. Zero time invested at all these days in trying to meet women Looking forward to a good year ahead!! Stars_light4U
| ||
|
I never count......but when I think about it, I don't need to use my toes! 
| ||
|
I never count......but when I think about it, I don't need to use my toes! Looking forward to a good year ahead!! Stars_light4U
|
Become a member to create a blog
